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Mutual split and getting back


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I'll keep it short as possible but informative. Gf and I split I broke up with her she was getting distant and I knew what was going on (doesn't handle stress well). Being we met on equal terms never fought and both split in a good manner I merely told her I was going to leave her alone for some time to get life in order (she has no intention of dating anyone, this isn't a guess I know for sure she just wants to be herself). A month went by I met her I had some stuff to return hadn't talked she said she missed me and just wanted to see me. Flat out I said we would not remain friends! It was either going to be progression towards a relationship or I was going to stop talking. She told me she has feelings and knows thst I'm what she wants ultimately in life.

We talk about every three days or so chat, text she calls, we went out like when we were dating and never missed a beat. Had another outing and she stayed the night (no sexual contact also told her I'm not complicating things). Seems like I'm doing the right thing all considered, she was joking about us honeymooning today, and still cares a great deal for me.

My question is am I seeming to handle it right? No contact wasn't an option in this case ultimately i woulda crushed her and never seen her again.

I make her work to see me and don't always come across as easy or available!

Last no Im not hung up I love her dearly but I'm still socializing with other people and content if we didnt get together again so there is no emotional depression in me spending time with her.

Thanks any questions lemmie know :)

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Happy for you that it is all working out again :). I miss that feeling of happiness with someone you love.

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