madjac74 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Well since this is the second time she has disappeared for 4 days or more, I may just send her a "safe adult fun" request instead of going on a date. She confirmed tonight she is not dating material and if I'm going to spend money on her i rather be in my apt playing then out in public talking 4 days? There are actually people who are so busy that they might neglect someone that they have been on 1 date with?? The reason some people are not 'dating material" is because there are so many incredibly needy people who need reassurance 1 hour after a date. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 4 days? There are actually people who are so busy that they might neglect someone that they have been on 1 date with?? The reason some people are not 'dating material" is because there are so many incredibly needy people who need reassurance 1 hour after a date. This was going to be our first meet which we scheduled last sunday. So I don't have the motivation to meet anymore after looking forward to meeting today and get some fraudulent text last night. So if she wants to see me it will be on my bed with the TV light on
madjac74 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 This was going to be our first meet which we scheduled last sunday. So I don't have the motivation to meet anymore after looking forward to meeting today and get some fraudulent text last night. So if she wants to see me it will be on my bed with the TV light on Trust me I have had first dates broken by what I assumed were BS reasons but eventually met them and had an amazing time. Some people with self worth are often hesitant about first meetings and actually may in fact be quite busy or she has several other guys going at the same time. 2
rocketman122 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Trust me I have had first dates broken by what I assumed were BS reasons but eventually met them and had an amazing time. Some people with self worth are often hesitant about first meetings and actually may in fact be quite busy or she has several other guys going at the same time. well said Jac! sometimes things are not what it seems and you let people here make up your mind for you. man up, pick up the phone, call her and then you'll know your answer. she will respect you for being assertive and taking initiative. if you dont try you might miss out on something good. there are a lot of misunderstandings with texts messages.
LFH Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 well said Jac! sometimes things are not what it seems and you let people here make up your mind for you. man up, pick up the phone, call her and then you'll know your answer. she will respect you for being assertive and taking initiative. if you dont try you might miss out on something good. there are a lot of misunderstandings with texts messages. THAT is what I was saying all along. But he was too busy being "a man" (and I mean that as much sarcasm as you can possibly put in a post) and making assumptions. But it sounds like he is completely down on women, expects only bad (self-fullfilling prophecy?) and is more interested in being right than in actual communication. Why call her now ? I would send his ass straight to voicemail. You think for one second she will entertain your lame attempt to come over to your dump of an apartment for cuddle time? You are delusional. Clearly you have no idea how to date or treat women. I'd have already blocked his number. 2
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