missyapparel Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Hi, my boyfriend broke up with me over a week ago. It felt like it was completely out of nowhere because I didn't realize all of our fighting was taking a toll on him. We were together for four months, and he made me feel like it was a fairytale as cliche as that sounds. Our biggest problem was him hiding stuff from me. He would hide stuff about girls contacting him. And I would always end up catching him and becoming suspicious. Its now that I realize he never told me stuff about girls because it was no big deal to him, and he didn't want to upset me. But I would always throw his mistakes in his face. I did not treat him as well as I thought I did. But I love him and he seems keeps saying "I thought I knew what I wanted, but I don't know now." Or "I need alone time." So I figured he left me, and I've been having fun, and some guy has been hitting on me on facebook, and my ex got extremely jealous, and freaked out and got upset. So that makes me feel like he still wants to be with me, but maybe he is just hurt from all I caused. So I texted him saying that he has a month to figure out if he wants to give us another chance. And that I will not be waiting around. And that if I don't hear from him by the end of the month, I'm closing my heart to him for good. And he responded with "Okay, thank you. I love you, too." What do I do now? Do I give him space? Do you think he will come back? I love him, and as much as it hurts if he is happy without me, I will leave him but, I believe that he is just running away from the problems. And he is trying to suppress his feelings for me. But please help. He is my first love. Thank you !
Car10e Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 So I texted him saying that he has a month to figure out if he wants to give us another chance. And that I will not be waiting around. And that if I don't hear from him by the end of the month, I'm closing my heart to him for good. I don't think I would've said this to him. Giving him a time frame might rush him into a decision he might not really want. Just give him the space he asked for. In the mean time I wouldn't put your life on hold. Things have a way of working themselves out, so if its meant to be, it will happen.
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