Dating a girl for 6 months and she won't add me to facebook

[writergal]

My last bf added me to his FB page a month into dating. If your GF hasn't added you after 6 months of dating she is definitely hiding something from you. Or she doesn't want her other friends, acquaintances, and family, to know she's in a relationship with you.

 

There's no legit reason she can offer, to justify why she hasn't added you at this point. None whatsoever.

 

If you don't have the cahones to be direct with her about something as trivial (and not so trivial in a way) as adding you to FB, then that says a lot about your conflict resolution skills. It's FB for goodness sake. How will you respond to your GF when more serious issues come up in your r/s? Avoidance because you don't want to learn the truth?

 

Cahones. Go get some. I think Target has some on sale. But keep your 30 day receipt in case you have to return them if they don't work. Then you'll have to go back and get some new ones.

[chphan]

Can you hide certain photos/statuses from people before you add them as a friend?

 

Yes you can. You can block a person or certain people from seeing certain things. The privacy setting is very customizable. You just need to dig and know how to use it. Most people just use the general public or friends can only view setting.

 

But if you dig deeper you can make it so only 1 person can see this while other can't or make it so this person can't see this but everyone else can.

 

You can even block your friends list from 1 friend but make it public to other friends and then pretend to the friend that you are blocking the list from with a lie and say you have it block for everyone and that person won't even know if that's true or not.

[I have no name]

If she had sanitized her profile, you would be added as a friend.

 

Needy is a bad word for us guys.

Society has conditioned us males to fear that label.

They know this, and use this label, and the label of 'opressive' to keep us in check.

You are being kept in check, and the needy word is like a chain on a dog in your case.

 

You tried finesse, good for you [i wouldn't], so now it's time to bring out the serious guns.

Tell her you want to help her find your online profile right when you meet her.

If she won't, well ... i doubt you have the balls to break up with her, so keep kissing that ass.

 

I absolutely would break up with her if she refused to add me in that situation. Obviously that would mean she's hiding something pretty big.

 

I will find out soon enough.

[I have no name]

My last bf added me to his FB page a month into dating. If your GF hasn't added you after 6 months of dating she is definitely hiding something from you. Or she doesn't want her other friends, acquaintances, and family, to know she's in a relationship with you.

 

There's no legit reason she can offer, to justify why she hasn't added you at this point. None whatsoever.

 

If you don't have the cahones to be direct with her about something as trivial (and not so trivial in a way) as adding you to FB, then that says a lot about your conflict resolution skills. It's FB for goodness sake. How will you respond to your GF when more serious issues come up in your r/s? Avoidance because you don't want to learn the truth?

 

Cahones. Go get some. I think Target has some on sale. But keep your 30 day receipt in case you have to return them if they don't work. Then you'll have to go back and get some new ones.

 

LOL okay I get it. I definitely will be direct and get to the bottom of this soon.

 

But I don't think she is embarassed of me since she has invited me to many events with her friends/family.

 

The only acceptable reason I can come up with is that she is embarrased of some old photos that she has on there. Maybe she was overweight in the past and doesn't want me to know.