stemac Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Hello all i Texted my "Ex" few hours ago.. I know its not a good thing and lots have told me not to but i really needed too, my relationship finished in the blink of an Eye 6 days ago i was on Holiday 2 weeks ago with her and all was well, its been on my mind eating me away is she thinking well hes not bothering so why should, so i Needed to say my thing i was not desperate i just said i think our relationship worth ever sec we spent together is worth fighting for, and if she feels the same text me i add other stuff but not bore you with that i said if you don't think its worth fighting for please don't text back if i don't hear from you i will know.... Its what i had to say, i will not be texting anymore do i feel any better no do i feel any worse no i had my say its her lost if she decides she doesn't want it any more and i will plod along till i feel better :-)
Tree_Salmon Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Hello all i Texted my "Ex" few hours ago.. I know its not a good thing and lots have told me not to but i really needed too, my relationship finished in the blink of an Eye 6 days ago i was on Holiday 2 weeks ago with her and all was well, its been on my mind eating me away is she thinking well hes not bothering so why should, so i Needed to say my thing i was not desperate i just said i think our relationship worth ever sec we spent together is worth fighting for, and if she feels the same text me i add other stuff but not bore you with that i said if you don't think its worth fighting for please don't text back if i don't hear from you i will know.... Its what i had to say, i will not be texting anymore do i feel any better no do i feel any worse no i had my say its her lost if she decides she doesn't want it any more and i will plod along till i feel better :-) If you had held out she probably would have texted you. Now she knows shes still got you. You need time away to heal yourself. forget the texts. We've all been there but you need some time to reflect. A month at least. 2
youngnlove89 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Hello all i Texted my "Ex" few hours ago.. I know its not a good thing and lots have told me not to but i really needed too, my relationship finished in the blink of an Eye 6 days ago i was on Holiday 2 weeks ago with her and all was well, its been on my mind eating me away is she thinking well hes not bothering so why should, so i Needed to say my thing i was not desperate i just said i think our relationship worth ever sec we spent together is worth fighting for, and if she feels the same text me i add other stuff but not bore you with that i said if you don't think its worth fighting for please don't text back if i don't hear from you i will know.... Its what i had to say, i will not be texting anymore do i feel any better no do i feel any worse no i had my say its her lost if she decides she doesn't want it any more and i will plod along till i feel better :-) Listen, forget what people say is right or wrong for you. You are the only one who has to deal with the reprecussions. YOU know what's right for you. The first month of a heartbreak is very difficult. and I believe in doing what you have to do get through it, even if that is contacting you ex. If this is the closure you needed, then good for you. You are a lover and a fighter. If she can't realize how great of a person you are, that's her loss! You needed that closure. I hope you got it too. Stay strong now.
Author stemac Posted August 17, 2012 Author Posted August 17, 2012 thank you Tree salmon for your words and thank you very much youngnlove89 its has gave me a bit of closure to me i just wanted her to know i would have fought tooth and nail for us and i wanted to leave that with her now i can start to try get better ive not eaten for 3 days so time to sort my head and get a grip :-)
youngnlove89 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 thank you Tree salmon for your words and thank you very much youngnlove89 its has gave me a bit of closure to me i just wanted her to know i would have fought tooth and nail for us and i wanted to leave that with her now i can start to try get better ive not eaten for 3 days so time to sort my head and get a grip :-) I did the same thing. I left it open for my ex, I let him know that if he changes his mind, he knows where I am, but that's only if he can give me what I want. BUT that doesn't mean when he does come back, that I will be still willing. I might be moved on, I might be with someone else, but that is the risk THEY are taking. Everyday they chose to be without us is another day they have re-evulated our worth and decided that they are better off elsewhere. Is this what you want? Someone who isn't appreciative of you? Someone who doesn't realize what they have, when they have it?
Drseussgrrl Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 I agree with Tree Salmon. They have to feel the loss of you if you have any chance of their coming back. People want what they can't have. It's pure human psychology.
Author stemac Posted August 17, 2012 Author Posted August 17, 2012 I did the same thing. I left it open for my ex, I let him know that if he changes his mind, he knows where I am, but that's only if he can give me what I want. BUT that doesn't mean when he does come back, that I will be still willing. I might be moved on, I might be with someone else, but that is the risk THEY are taking. Everyday they chose to be without us is another day they have re-evulated our worth and decided that they are better off elsewhere. Is this what you want? Someone who isn't appreciative of you? Someone who doesn't realize what they have, when they have it? no i wouldn't go back with her if i get a text or call months down the line saying i am sorry please forgive me.. its to late then i want someone who wants me not has to think about it for a few month
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