SeventhFloor Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 I have to. I want to tell her that I know she lied, and what she lied about. I want to tell her that I know she cheated. I can't let her get away with what she did. She's off, happy with her new guy, thinking that I'm oblivious to her superiorly crappy actions. No. She doesn't get to get away with it. I want it to eat at her conscience. I want her to know that I know. She CAN'T get away with thinking that I don't know, and that I never knew when I knew all along. It has to bother her, right? If it doesn't...it will eventually...right? Doesn't it always? Or does she just NOT CARE? If she doesn't care...it's because she THINKS SHE GOT AWAY WITH IT when she DID NOT! And I want her to know that she DID NOT I have to contact her. I have to tell her that she did not get away with it.
Author SeventhFloor Posted August 17, 2012 Author Posted August 17, 2012 (edited) She thinks she got away with her lies... she never did. Thinking that won't ever make her feel guilty for what she did, when she deserves the guilt. I am panicing. This point has been coming for the past few days. I have to contact her. I have to tell her that I know she lied. I have to tell her that I know she cheated. Edited August 17, 2012 by SeventhFloor
Zammo25 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 She has gone, GONE. Let it go. She is not thinking about you now. You are an irrelevance to her now, as we all are. That is the way it is. Accept it and rebuild your life. 2
PurpleStar Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 if she didnt care when you were in a relationship..why would she care now that you are out of the relationship?
not-a-drive-by Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 I agree with the above posters. She's done it and it's in the past; now she's with someone else. The text won't bother her. And if it makes her feel guilty, she'll most likely delete the text. If she replies with an apology, you'll still be hurt. But the past won't be fixed. She still got away with it because she left you. Post here and vent, as much as you like.
YorickBrown Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 I have to. I want to tell her that I know she lied, and what she lied about. I want to tell her that I know she cheated. I can't let her get away with what she did. She's off, happy with her new guy, thinking that I'm oblivious to her superiorly crappy actions. No. She doesn't get to get away with it. I want it to eat at her conscience. I want her to know that I know. She CAN'T get away with thinking that I don't know, and that I never knew when I knew all along. It has to bother her, right? If it doesn't...it will eventually...right? Doesn't it always? Or does she just NOT CARE? If she doesn't care...it's because she THINKS SHE GOT AWAY WITH IT when she DID NOT! And I want her to know that she DID NOT I have to contact her. I have to tell her that she did not get away with it. Ahhhh...Revenge!!! by breaking NC?!? NC in this case would mean Not Cool bro. Besides maybe you're familiar with the oft-quoted remark "Revenge is a dish best served cold"? Whatever...which basically means (I think) not to do something while you're still mad or angry. Think about it first --be cold and calculating (better still, be creative). Don't get mad...get even! Sure..."she thinks she got away with it"....but the best way to go about getting even is when you yourself can get away with (the revenge). She does not need to know (or at least, not riight away) that it was you. Right?
TheUnthoughtKnown Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Ahhhh...Revenge!!! by breaking NC?!? NC in this case would mean Not Cool bro. Besides maybe you're familiar with the oft-quoted remark "Revenge is a dish best served cold"? Whatever...which basically means (I think) not to do something while you're still mad or angry. Think about it first --be cold and calculating (better still, be creative). Don't get mad...get even! Sure..."she thinks she got away with it"....but the best way to go about getting even is when you yourself can get away with (the revenge). She does not need to know (or at least, not riight away) that it was you. Right? See now, I have a different quote for this situation. It goes, "Live well, for that is the best revenge." She won't care about what you know, she's off with someone else now. It won't make a difference to her, but it might give her a bit of a kick knowing you're still burning up about it. Wouldn't the best thing to do be show her that she didn't affect you or your life the way that she probably wants to?
kindest Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 I say, do what you have to do if it's going to make you feel better. You really have to think this through though, will this confrontation truly make you feel better? Do not have any expectations about her response, in fact, do not even expect that she will respond. She probably wouldn't care, or even think she has done nothing wrong. Do the one text, get it over with, and move on.
Author SeventhFloor Posted August 18, 2012 Author Posted August 18, 2012 I've been reading your guys comments...and it's helped me in my desperation. You guys are all right, at this point it doesn't even matter...she knows what she did and if she doesn't feel guilty for it...well that shows what type of person she is. I've held off on texting her...even though last night i was close to. I just came back here and read these posts. How about this for something funny? She texted me this morning. It was just some bull****...probably peeking in to see how I'm doing...probably doesn't mean anything...but she texted me.
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