2muchlove Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 I'll quote someone who opened up my eyes a lot through my turmoil. "A heartbreak, has nothing to do with the person your heart is breaking for but rather from the fact that you were not chosen and the fear that someone else might be better than you." --Jaystar Also if I may add on to that, others might say they are afraid of being alone and that nobody else will understand and love them like their past lover. Well I can safely say that's a load of sh*t. If your ex could love you, then I promise there are thousands more that you will meet that can and would love you just as much. You have to love your damn self first. If someone broke your heart it's now your full time job to make them regret that decision for the rest of their life by becoming the best you can be. So when you have moved on and become the 2.0 version of yourself and those gutless hobos come running back you can tell them to lick the space in between your balls and buttcrack. 10
KatZee Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Love this. And it's true. I spent a few weeks in a funk and thinking I really missed my ex and wanted him back. And then I actually sat and THOUGHT about it, and what I was thinking I missed, and I realized I actually missed being a part of that family, and missed certain aspects of being with him, but not HIM specifically! I went on my first official date last night after three months of being NC and split from my ex... had a great time!!! We sat and talked and had drinks for about 4 hours. I was attracted to him, he seems to be a real nice guy, and he said he had a great time as well! I didn't even think about the ex ONCE! I didn't compare him to this new guy at all... I realized about 2-3 hours into the date that I hadn't done ONE SINGLE comparison at all, and that truly shocked me because when we first split, I thought my ex was the best thing on earth... clearly not if I don't even try to compare new guys to him!! 7
youngnlove89 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 I'll quote someone who opened up my eyes a lot through my turmoil. "A heartbreak, has nothing to do with the person your heart is breaking for but rather from the fact that you were not chosen and the fear that someone else might be better than you." --Jaystar Also if I may add on to that, others might say they are afraid of being alone and that nobody else will understand and love them like their past lover. Well I can safely say that's a load of sh*t. If your ex could love you, then I promise there are thousands more that you will meet that can and would love you just as much. You have to love your damn self first. If someone broke your heart it's now your full time job to make them regret that decision for the rest of their life by becoming the best you can be. So when you have moved on and become the 2.0 version of yourself and those gutless hobos come running back you can tell them to lick the space in between your balls and buttcrack. Very true. Albeit, it's hard to follow. People don't see the light at the end of the tunnel till they turn around (got that from somone on here). It's easy to preach, but to follow your own guidance takes time and courage. Time is the only thing on our side. Staying postive. Waking up everyday and realizing we deserve everything we want in life. We control our happiness and until we realize it is in our control to be happy, is when we can be happy. Sometimes people try to find their happiness in others, they are dependent. Until we let that go and realize we are the one who controls our smile, it will get easier. But that takes patience, it takes studying. It's something we have to learn. 2
Vikki_26 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 hehe love this post! Like the reply too, gives me hope!
youngnlove89 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Love this. And it's true. I spent a few weeks in a funk and thinking I really missed my ex and wanted him back. And then I actually sat and THOUGHT about it, and what I was thinking I missed, and I realized I actually missed being a part of that family, and missed certain aspects of being with him, but not HIM specifically! I went on my first official date last night after three months of being NC and split from my ex... had a great time!!! We sat and talked and had drinks for about 4 hours. I was attracted to him, he seems to be a real nice guy, and he said he had a great time as well! I didn't even think about the ex ONCE! I didn't compare him to this new guy at all... I realized about 2-3 hours into the date that I hadn't done ONE SINGLE comparison at all, and that truly shocked me because when we first split, I thought my ex was the best thing on earth... clearly not if I don't even try to compare new guys to him!! It's great to hear a positive story. gives me hope that I will get there too one day!!
Bazamu Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 you can tell them to lick the space in between your balls and buttcrack. That space in between is what we call, the Chode. =)
Drseussgrrl Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Or the taint. 'taint your balls, 'taint your ass. 1
Author 2muchlove Posted August 18, 2012 Author Posted August 18, 2012 Something that has helped me a lot through this is to watch this guy talk about relationships. It's real, and it's the truth. 1
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