Ani9000 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Hey guys, So I am about a month and a week post break up. My ex and I have only talked when we need to sort things out about our apartment (he moved out) and the rest has been no contact. I thought I was doing better after a month but I visited my family the last two weeks and I am a wreck. I miss him more than ever. So many new things are happening to me and I just miss having him to talk to and I hate that whenever something good or bad happens I want to talk to him. I thought after a month I would be much better off and stop missing him but I guess a two year relationship doesn't disappear that quickly for me. My friends and family have actually been suggesting I text him which is a surprise because at first they all said forget about him. They say that I am being really stubborn by not contacting him even though I really miss him. But in my head I keep thinking he dumped me and he obviously isn't missing me or he would talk to me. But they keep telling me we are both stubborn about it. Truthfully, I cannot see myself texting him because I would feel vulnerable and pathetic. But there goes my rant lol Thanks for reading and replies are welcome
TaraMaiden Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Breaking up is like bereavement - and you go through stages, and this is one of them. Take heart - you're not alone, everyone goes through ups and downs, progress and setbacks. i would advise very strongly in fact that the last thing you EVER think of doing - is contacting him. Read the Caliguy link in my signature. Works like a charm. Keep going - you'll do fine....
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