neveragain2493 Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 My ex and I dated for 2 and a half years, and I broke up with him a month ago. I did it for a few reasons. One, he cheated on me in the past with his ex, and I feel like she's been around ever since. Two, he would make comments about my weight that hurt. Three, I've been through a rough patch after my mom passed and am not sure what I want, and that wasn't fair to him. These all sound like solid reasons, but still, we share all of the same interests and had incredible times together. Throughout all of my rough times, he was always loving and supportive. When we broke up, he said he was upset but understood. A few weeks later, he crossed my mind, and I texted him. I told him that I was hurt because I felt like I gave my all to him, but he didn't care. He told me that pretty much summed it up, that he didn't care about me anymore. I said that couldn't be true, that I knew him better. I talked about good times we had and how I really wanted him in my life, even if we were just friends. I said that if it went somewhere, it would, but I didn't expect him to. He just said "maybe, but probably not. Time will tell. I'll talk to you sometime." It was really insensitive, and it hurt. He hadn't crossed my mind much after that until a few days ago when I went to his parents' to get my things. He wasn't there, but his mom was, and we both cried. I realized how much I really had loved being with him and his family. She was telling me that he was putting up a front when he said he didn't care because that wasn't true. Ever since then, I can't stop thinking about him and the good things that were in our relationship. I definitely get extremely angry at the thought of him ever being with someone else. I don't know what to do. Right now, he isn't in town because he's working an hour away, and he's basically by himself. He won't move back until December, and I found out he's going to be in the apartment next to mine... Imagine that. What should I do?
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