youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 (edited) Day 1 of NC After a year and half of ups and downs and him being unsure of his feelings and whether I was the one for him. After him dumping me twice before and begging me back later, it is FINALLY over. Any of you who are going through what I am: someone who is unsure of their feelings for you, realize this: We gave that person what they wanted, of course they were happy and of course that’s why they stuck around for so long. They were getting everything they wanted in a relationship. Of course they are going to miss us while we are gone, because their needs were met and now they aren’t. But for me? I wasn’t happy while in that relationship with him because I wasn’t getting what I wanted! So when he is gone, I’m going to be happier because I’m moving on and finding what I want in someone else. And I will find it. And when I do, I won’t be thinking of him or missing him. I have this weird feeling he will come back after he realizes what he lost. They always come back. He did two times before, but I can’t hold onto that because he will never change. This is me letting him go. This is me giving up on him. This is me being happy without him. Edited August 16, 2012 by youngnlove89 2
outofgoodbyes Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 good for you! realize your worth and know that you deserve better than what hes giving you! you can definitely do this!
Author youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 good for you! realize your worth and know that you deserve better than what hes giving you! you can definitely do this! Thanks How are you doing?
Author youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 Should I delete his friends from my Facebook? He doesn't have a FB anymore, so don't need to worry about him. But I have 4 of his friends on there that I don't really talk to. Would that be a good thing?
kindest Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I have this weird feeling he will come back after he realizes what he lost. They always come back. He did two times before, but I can’t hold onto that because he will never change. Yes, they do come back all the time. It's becoming very predictable. Anyway, good on you. I know how you feel. Be strong.
Author youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 Yes, they do come back all the time. It's becoming very predictable. Anyway, good on you. I know how you feel. Be strong. I just hope when he does come back, I'm over him and with someone else. And then I can have the pleasure of saying, "you aren't the one for ME!"
BooBoo1982 Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Yes, they do come back all the time. It's becoming very predictable. Anyway, good on you. I know how you feel. Be strong. Do you think yours will come back kindest? I can't find your story, is it on here?
kindest Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Do you think yours will come back kindest? I can't find your story, is it on here? It is on here somewhere, but I guess to cut it short: we were together 6 months and everything was going well (or so I thought). Then one day he turns cold, I talk to him about it, he doesn't want to open up. Later that day, I asked again, and then he breaks up with me. He gave me all sorts of reasons: he realized he isn't ready for a relationship, he hasn't recovered from his previous, he's not good enough for me... I've heard it all. We've been broken up for 6 months now, and I am still not healed. The first month went NC, he suddenly reached out to me so we've been on LC (I just couldn't ignore him) until last week when I finally asked him to stop contacting me. Will he come back? He has... but he wasn't clear on why he kept on bugging me. Will he want to be with me again? I don't know... I'm at this point where I don't want to care anymore. I am tired of all his BS.
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