Twitch Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 (edited) I had a one night stand with a gorgeous younger girl two year ago. I'm 55 and she's 26 now, we exchanged numbers, but I had no intention of calling her. Then, I did, I don't know why. I have no problem doing that usually but I didn't want to with this girl. We started to date, the chemistry was there unlike anyone else. The sex is mind blowing, I usually need about half an hour to recover after. I noticed the night we met she limped slightly. I didn't think much of it until I found out she's disabled physically, I felt horrible but she told me it was ok. She had been told I'd probably not call her again so she didn't get her hopes up. One night we were going on a date, she told me she was getting ready and she left a key outside and to let myself in. When I got there I thought she was taking too long so I walked on the bathroom. She slipped in the shower and hit her head, I hurried and got her to the hospital. I had to call her mom for information and she thanked me. When my girlfriend woke up she apologized I told it was ok. I was having more fun there anyway (sarcastically, I hate hospitals). She ended up staying with me for two days because I was worried. Her mom sent me a thank you card and a gift card with $200 on it, I felt bad because they don't have a lot of money and I do pretty well. After that I really started helping her with things. I don't want her to over do it, or get hurt so I volunteer. I've never loved someone like this, I think about her constantly. The problem is I never wanted to get married, I never wanted to have kids, I built myself up and didn't have to deal with all that. To be on the safe side I got a vasectomy a few years ago. She broke up with me three months ago because she wants to have a baby and get married. She took all her stuff from my house, gave me back mine and the key to my place. I gave her her key back too. I've been so upset, this girl is my world. I don't usually get attached to women. I move on fast, but not with her. My friend told me she has been talking to another guy, I started to get really hot. I was so angry, I wanted to call her and scream at her. I have more self control than that so I let it go. I want this woman to be all mine. How do I do that? I need her, I can't be just friends. Does anyone have any advice? Edited August 16, 2012 by Twitch
Arabella Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I have a feeling she was already talking to this other guy before she ended it, and she just used the marriage and kids thing as an excuse. However... If she really left you because of that, you have options. Think about whether this is something you could give her and if the answer is yes... follow through and tell her that you love her, that you want her back, and are willing to give her what she wants. Your other option is to simply accept that a woman her age has every right to want to get married and have children, and you gotta let her do that.
JasonRules Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 " I'm 55 and she's 26 now" I'll bet money this girl didn't grow up with a father and is suffering from "daddy complex". Just curious, what do you as a 55 year old middle age man can have in common with a girl almost 30 years younger than you?
Author Twitch Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 We have similar likes and dislikes, we care for each other, we have a fabulous time together. I really am in love with this woman she's smart, she's gorgeous, she has a great sense of humor, she's a sweetheart who'll take care of someone else before herself. She's wonderful, she just needs some help sometimes, and I think it scares guys off. I've given thought to getting my vasectomy reversed, and I would the only problem Is the success rate. I miss her so much it's been hard on me, I've never had anything like this happen before
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