Author JAH6789 Posted September 17, 2012 Author Posted September 17, 2012 Latest update and I'm guessing the last. After giving her the crickets for a week she sends me one more text on Thursday, "I'm getting rid of the dog". I scramble for hours trying to find temporary housing for him and by the time I do. I text her back saying I've found a place for him, I'll be by to pick him up this week to which she replies. "I'm not getting rid of him. Waiting on your money. You didnt respond to my last text. Are you going to help me with the bills? I have an $800 electric bill im still paying off" to which I replied. scan and show me July's electric bill. I'll pay, I just want proof of the bill thats all. She said "fine" but of course I've never seen a picture of the bill to this day and it's been a month. I also asked her if she was going to reimburse me for the wedding gifts I had bought, she had lost. She actually said, go to the lenox factory by you and get another gift set. Like that's going to replace the money I've already lost on them? Here's where this girl made NO sense. Her last text was this which cracks me up. "and i just bought my ticket for Aruba (a destination wedding we were supposed to go to together) So I'm pretty sure me wedding expenses far outweigh yours." umm, you didn't buy me a ticket to Aruba, what the hell does that have anything to do with me or what were talking about? At this point I decide to let her see what she actually did and wrote. I emailed her the original corespondence she had on FB with him and her. I wrote "reread this and let me thhink what you are really entitled too" She emailed back 2 minutes later saying "BC i helped support you for the last 2 years when things got rough financially. Dinners, drinks. You can't honestly say you didn't see this happening. You had every chance." to which I replied. "again, that's a reason to break up with me. Not fool around with dudes in our hot tub, and behind my back, and you did this all willingly." to her last reply; "Ugh how many times do I have to tell you? I made out with him, that's it!! I know what I said on fb but that was a figure of speech. And i had been trying to get the message through to you for weeks at that point!" After that, I just started ignoring her as I knew this was going no where. But I had to laugh when I read it was a figure of speech? The next day, she texted me one last time saying "I really dont want to fight with you. I thought you still wanted to see the dog" an hour later "I dont want to think of the last 3 and a half years as a waste of time" an hour later "??", I never reposnded. She still has no idea where I live, lastly, she FB my current roomate saying "hey dude, wanted to see if you would like to get some drinks one night, if not I totally understand" Whe I say roomate, my buddys girlfriend, the 3 of us live together. My roomate didnt write her back nor plans do.
Chi townD Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 Hell, Im feeling vengeful today. I would go ahead and e-mail that conversation to her brother. She shouldn't get mad! It was only a figure of speech, right?!?! She can explain it and they can have a laugh over it. And you should have seen that coming? Really? That she was going to (and has) cheat on you after 3.5 years? E-mail it to him. If she texts you, " How could you do that to him?!?!" You could respond with, " Well, you should have seen that coming!"
stillafool Posted September 17, 2012 Posted September 17, 2012 OP, why are you still talking to that loser? Change all your contact info and be rid of her for good. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
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