lola23 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 So i want my ex to delete some private pictures that he has on his computer is this a good idea? just wanna shoot a simple/politely txt asking him to delete them if he still has them. i just don't want them ending up some where else... please help?
TaraMaiden Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 No. And unfortunately, while they're on his computer and he has them, they're his property. If he were to publish them, you might have cause of action against him. but if you willingly sent them, and he has them for his private use, then I think you'll find there's little you can do. If he's had them for a year, and done nothing, there's little reason to suspect he will do anything now, and putting ideas into his head would be both reckless and unfortunate. Perhaps you might like to consider the wisdom of sending any future BF pictures of any kind (I presume they were risqué?) due to the uncertainty of the permanence of any relationship. Really - just don't do it.
Car10e Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Even if you did ask him, how would you know if he really deleted them or not?
TaraMaiden Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 (Before anyone asks, I don't know where I got that he's had them for a year, from.... sorry. )
weallfalldown Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 most men wouldn't, purely for the fact, why would they want others to see your body etc?.....pictures like that are sent everyday all over the world.... By mobile, email whatever......i wouldn't worry too much, unless you've been a bad girl and done something bad?.........hmmm:rolleyes:
changchewsoon Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I recently just came out from a 4 1/2 years relationship, and when I was still together with my ex she has sent me countless pictures of herselves which she will never want anybody else to see. Although she was the one who engaged the break up and not willing to give me any closure so I was forced into NC, still I will not stoop to the level where I will have her pictures leaked to the public to cause her any embarrasment or hurt. But it was never about her at all, it is about me. Regardless of what she did in the past to hurt me, ie lied, cheated, manipulative I still will not do it. And I know that she knows me well enough to know I will never stoop that low, hence its something that she doesn't need to be worried at all. So, the first question you need to ask yourself is whether is there any reason at all for you to be concerned? Was it a bad break up? Or during your dating days you know that he is actually capable of doing such things?
Mike_d Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I have photos, frankly I had to put them in a non used spot on my computer. wasn't ready to delete them yet but damn sure didnt want to see them either. I wouldn't out them, they mean something to me, and when they don't I'll delete them.
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