missmarple Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 First meet was a week and a half ago. It was brief (but fun) as we both had other commitments for later that night. He didn't mention getting together again at the end, but later when I texted him to thank him he replied with "let's do it again." To which I responded, "Let's!" and some other stuff related to things we had spoken about. So, I haven't heard from him, yet he keeps checking out my profile. Why is that? Interested? Not interested? What? I'm okay either way. I wasn't blown away by the chemistry, but I thought he was an interesting enough person to explore a 2nd date and/or get to know him better. Not sure what to think.
mickleb Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 No backbone? Yeah - odd behaviour but I'd suggest repeatedly checking the profile of someone else you find interesting instead. You've already initiated contact after the first date, let him grab his cahones if he's able to, then consider if you still want him. 1
truth_seeker Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 He's interested if he keeps checking out your profile but still undecided about pursuing you if he's holding back. He might have other options on the table or he's trying to play it like he's busy to make it look like he's not too eager.
catalystmosaic Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 What the moderator on the pof forums was trying to explain before he closed your thread over there is that there is no way to tell that the guy has been looking at your profile on plentyoffish. It shows you people who have looked at your profile at any point in time who have recently been online. This is where you would see him. It does not show you when he last looked at your profile or how many times he has looked at your profile at all. If he's online and on pof and hasn't called you for a week and a half it's fair to say he's not interested. 1
Author missmarple Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 What the moderator on the pof forums was trying to explain before he closed your thread over there is that there is no way to tell that the guy has been looking at your profile on plentyoffish. It shows you people who have looked at your profile at any point in time who have recently been online. This is where you would see him. It does not show you when he last looked at your profile or how many times he has looked at your profile at all. If he's online and on pof and hasn't called you for a week and a half it's fair to say he's not interested. I understand that. I was not asking the question specific to that site. He is on that site plus another (where he IS checking my profile and I CAN see the date and time.) I will refrain from using those message boards going forward. I don't see the point of locking threads really.
henderson14 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 He might have been undecided and checked your profile to help make a decision. I've kind of been like this sometimes. Like on OKC, I might want to read their Q&A again or descriptions of themselves. Not sure why he kept on doing it though. 1
oaks Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 , yet he keeps checking out my profile. Why is that? Interested? Not interested? What? I do this sometimes. If it was me it probably means I'm on the fence... attracted to some aspects but not others and trying to figure out if, on balance, I want to take things further.
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