youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 "When you drop a glass or a plate to the ground, it makes a loud crashing sound. When a window shatters, a table leg breaks, or when a picture falls off the wall, it makes a noise. But as for your heart, when that breaks, it’s completely silent. You would think as it’s so important it would make the loudest noise in the whole world, or even have some sort of ceremonious sound like the gong of a symbol or the ringing of a bell. But it’s silent and you almost wish there was a noise to distract you from the pain." Tonight was the official breakup. The guy who was so unsure of his feelings for me for a year and half finally decided to quit messing with my feelings and let me go. He told me he wanted to be my friend and I said I couldn't give that to him. He got angry. And I told him, you can't be my bf and I can't be your friend. Sometimes in life we can't have what we want. I can't have you the way I want to have you and you can't have me the way you want to have me. He said he didn't want to lose me. But I said we have to go our seperate ways. I didn't want to hang up the call with him because I knew it would be our last call, I wanted the phone call to last forever, I didn't want to let go. You could tell he was getting emotionally too, you could hear it in his voice. He said he wanted to continue as we were but knew that it wasn't in my best interest because he could never give me what I want. And I said "I know that after this call it will be over between you and I" and he said, "No it won't, because we always find a way back to eachother" and I said, "Not this time." Strange. But even when you know it has to end, when it finally does, you always get that inevitable twinge: Have I done the right thing?
Author youngnlove89 Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 I could really use something...anything kind of wisdom.
confusedx10 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 now ill help you! Yes you have done the right thing! Your comment will make him really think. If he wants to change for you and be the person you want then maybe start talking to him. but if he isnt changing then NC! the time apart will help you understand everything. its going to be hard and i am going through it too but this too shall pass. believe in fate, thats what is getting me through
Leigh 87 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 You HAVE done the right thing!!!! .... He really likes you, and does sound genuinely upset and emotionala bout you, a close person to him, leaving his life. However, it is NOT true love! It is just him missing someone he really likes and is around a lot, for years on end.... Remember he misses you, but not in the true love way; or he would be with you. Leave him, to go find a guy who DOES love you in thre true sense of the word. 1
thecoolkid Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 You guys obviously broke up for a reason... If the initial feeling was that the break up was best for the both of you, then so be it. I understand the pain your going through, for often times it can feel unbearable. BUT you CAN move forward and learn from this experience...Just do not give up.
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