Lamplight Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Two years ago, I was going through major life changes. I was alone and had no support system. That's when I met the dirty little bastard. He started out nice and turned mean and abusive very quickly. He always rubbed other women in my face too. Well after 10 months, he started ghosting me and after month of that, I called him out on it and got the I take my kids to different schools spill and told me he was too busy to see me anymore. So that was that. I did not contact him or him me in anyway after that. However, I tracked him on line and found out that he was really a sick son of a bitch. In February all his Internet activity stopped. He dropped me in August. I was so glad the relationship ended after I stumbled upon the whole truth. Well, about this time my daughter started dance school. It's one of the best in the country. She joined the dance team and has many friends that we hang out with. We love the school Well fast forward a year. It's the night of the recital. The show was wonderful. As we were leaving, I run right into that sick little ****. He looks shocked and surprised, then starts staring at my boobs. I turned my head and started talking with other parents. His wife was with him when he was doing this too His daughter goes there to. I had no idea. I sign her up again the next a pay a year in advance. Two weeks later I get a text from him. Here is what he said: Just wanted to send a note to apologize for disappearing on you. Carrie saw a couple of texts from you and you can imagine the rest. I couldn't contact you for obvious reasons. I wanted to but just couldn't chance it. Things are ok now. I am really sorry. I still think about you and in fact saw you Happy Gilmore Dance. I didn't think you saw me though. Just wanted to say sorry. I'm just not one to just walk away and not say anything. Hope your doing Ok. Wow what a pack of bold faced lies. I sAt on this for a week and replied via IM because I don't want to be in his phone records," thanks for the apology" and nothing more. Three weeks later, he sent this: You're welcome. Just so you know, C knew I was talking to someone. Never knew who. Thanks for everything. I meant every word I ever said to you. I have not rePlied. What does he want? To see if we are still going to dance? Thinking if I say nothing that it looks cowardly. Thought about sending him some stupid emoticon or just telling him to get lost. I don't want his sorry ass anywhere near me however, I think we have our classes on the same night. I would prefer that he find another dance school since we aren't leaving. Don't think that would be fair to my daughter. So what should I say or should I say anything at all. Don't want to say anything about our past in writing.
veryhappy Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Just don't say anything. Don't engage him. Wow the person who doesn't disappear on people did it with you.
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