Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I pulled up at the gas station, and this cute mom was helping her teenage son fill up his Camaro. Ha. Anyways, I used a line that I've used before. "I just wanted to say I think you are absoluetly gorgeous, and I'd be kicking myself if I didn't say hello to you" "Oh my God, u are so sweet. That just made my day. No one has ever said that to me before etc ete" We keep talking, and I ask, "would u like to go out for a drink sometime?" "Oh my God, you are amazing, but I can't...Im married" "You should really wear a ring on your finger then" (I made sure to look before I talked to her) "I know I should...I took it off cause my husband had an affair." She seemed genuinely flattered, and I wrote my number down incase she changes her mind. She said she had to get her marriage back in order. Not expecting her to call, but she was cute. A little chubby, but cute. I had no idea how to play the affair card, was really not what I was expecting, so it caught me off guard. 7
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 She seemed genuinely flattered, and I wrote my number down incase she changes her mind. She said she had to get her marriage back in order.
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 I also kissed her on the cheek as i left
GLDheart Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I pulled up at the gas station, and this cute mom was helping her teenage son fill up his Camaro. Ha. Anyways, I used a line that I've used before. "I just wanted to say I think you are absoluetly gorgeous, and I'd be kicking myself if I didn't say hello to you" "Oh my God, u are so sweet. That just made my day. No one has ever said that to me before etc ete" We keep talking, and I ask, "would u like to go out for a drink sometime?" "Oh my God, you are amazing, but I can't...Im married" "You should really wear a ring on your finger then" (I made sure to look before I talked to her) "I know I should...I took it off cause my husband had an affair." She seemed genuinely flattered, and I wrote my number down incase she changes her mind. She said she had to get her marriage back in order. Not expecting her to call, but she was cute. A little chubby, but cute. I had no idea how to play the affair card, was really not what I was expecting, so it caught me off guard. If you said "Call me when you want revenge" you would come across like a shallow piece of ship not worth calling anyway... so you played it right. By respecting her situation (even if it was BS) you take the high road. There is nothing wrong with complimenting a girl. You made her day and she got to do right by her own set of standards by being honest with you. 2
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 If you said "Call me when you want revenge" you would come across like a shallow piece of ship not worth calling anyway... so you played it right. By respecting her situation (even if it was BS) you take the high road. There is nothing wrong with complimenting a girl. You made her day and she got to do right by her own set of standards by being honest with you. I thought about mentioning the affair, but didn't for that reason. Later, I realized that something like "Im not asking you to have an affair, Im just asking you to have a drink" would have worked. 1
The Way I Am Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 That's great! Later, I realized that something like "Im not asking you to have an affair, Im just asking you to have a drink" would have worked. Hmmm... I don't know. That could still come off a little sleazy. I think you did it right being respectful of the marriage. Who knows, maybe down the road if they can't work it out, she'll give you a call. 1
pteromom Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I think you did it right being respectful of the marriage. Who knows, maybe down the road if they can't work it out, she'll give you a call. The other thing is maybe your attention gave her the confidence boost she needed to walk away from her cheating husband. 3
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I love how you told her she is "absoluetely gorgeous", but here, behind her back, you said "A little chubby but cute." 2
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 I love how you told her she is "absoluetely gorgeous", but here, behind her back, you said "A little chubby but cute." not a big deal
ThaWholigan Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I love how you told her she is "absoluetely gorgeous", but here, behind her back, you said "A little chubby but cute." Maybe he likes them chubby I do too 1
yongyong Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 you got some steel balls. What was her teenage son doing when you were talking to her? Personally I wouldn't hit on a mom with a kid in public. Maybe I care too much about public eyes....
Forever Learning Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Maybe he likes them chubby I do too Boy howdy I'm banking on a little chubby being A-ok. This baby got back!! 1
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Hitting on women with their teenage son is a bad idea. Never know how the kids going to react to some random guy out trying to **** his mother. yeah, his 5'5 frame could have really kicked my ass
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 yeah, his 5'5 frame could have really kicked my ass Ah yes, how soon we forget that height is indicative of fighting skills. 6
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Ah yes, how soon we forget that height is indicative of fighting skills. 5'5, 140. His mom's breasts were bigger than his arms.
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 5'5, 140. His mom's breasts were bigger than his arms. Floyd Mayweather is 5'8 135lbs. Just sayin
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Floyd Mayweather is 5'8 135lbs. Just sayin you just compared a boxer to a 16 year old kid who you've never seen. got it.
The Way I Am Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Have some respect, or shame. From Marks description, he was being respectful. If the kid attacked him for daring to speak in a nice and respectful way to his mother, the kid's seriously messed up. I don't think we should shape our everyday behaviors on how messed up teenagers are likely to react.
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 From Marks description, he was being respectful. If the kid attacked him for daring to speak in a nice and respectful way to his mother, the kid's seriously messed up. I don't think we should shape our everyday behaviors on how messed up teenagers are likely to react. very well said, thank you. i made no mention to her about her body, or anything like that.
MrCastle Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 From Marks description, he was being respectful. Hitting on a married woman with a kid, and then sliding her your number when she mentions her and her husband are having problems is respectful? Wow. 3
KungFuJoe Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Anyone who believes this story...I got a bridge I'm selling for real cheap.
Author Mark1 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Anyone who believes this story...I got a bridge I'm selling for real cheap. 100% serious. Im trying to do more cold approaches, because with school and work I don't have as much time to go out.
soccerrprp Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Wow, dude, you approached a woman with her kid, found out she was married and didn't back off....you are my hero. NOT. Just guessing here, but, you seem like the type that would bang any woman, married or not...am I right? I could be wrong. Whoohoo, a big plus for all MANkind everywhere...
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