The Tallest One Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Ok quick synopsis! Went out with girl for four months, hit it off amazingly, fell head over heals for her! Then some issues of mine come to surface (mainly financial) and she dumps me! Two weeks later we sort of get back together and then spent next ten or so months on a roller coaster of ups and downs with her ending things every so many weeks and then returning again! So this goes on and on and drives me crazy! Finally things become too strained and it comes to an end almost two months ago! After five weeks of not hearing or even expecting to hear from her, she texts me saying she misses talking to me and wants to know if it's ok to text me! She texts me couple more times and she went away last weekend! I though I would have heard from her Monday or at least yesterday but nothing? What the hell does she want? Is she a head case? She did this same thing many months ago too, and why can't I cut her loose? Am I crazy for still having strong feelings for her? It's such a push pull relationship and it's not good for me but can't get over her, I feel stuck! I just wish she would either work on things with us or just let me move on and not contact me! It just gives me false hope!
flitzanu Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 she certainly doesn't want "you". you're being her doormat and you should stop. if she isn't behaving in a manner you want in the relationship, then you should back off and stop dealing with her, and stop letting her have all the power for sure.
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