69ways Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 You can read my story by checking my profile but basically 5 years together planned to get married, she left me for no real reason and then she chased me for a year but she never said the words:I want you back. Told her to get lost 5 months ago when she slept with another guy , she tried in April on my bd to have contact and 4 days ago I got a call but did not answer and will NOT answer. No advice needed just an update and hope for some opinion comments
not-a-drive-by Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 She chased you for a year? Isn't that enough as a "I want you back"? (Sorry, I don't know which thread to start from for your story).
Author 69ways Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 She chased you for a year? Isn't that enough as a "I want you back"? (Sorry, I don't know which thread to start from for your story). Well no when she says we cant be together again but want to be friends, the chasing I believe was a type of :I will call you until i get over you. I noticed that with time her contact was reduced. I thought like you just did above..... Maybe she wants me back and therefore I travelled there with flowers 1,5 years ago for her bd just 2 months after breaking up, just to be called egoistic..... So NO it was not enough..... As I said not posting for criticism or advice.....just to show that they cant really give up some times
Author 69ways Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Would you ever take her back? Now no, I cant believe how cruel she was , its too l8 for this relationship now. I really tried to excuse her. I often found myself wondering, if i was blind or she really changed.... To give an example. I am allergic to bees and epipen is not available where I live. Her been a medical doctor , its very easy to obtain it for me. After the break up I asked her if she could help me with this, she said no. We are talking about life or death here, so after all the way she treated me....noooo wayyyyy.... 1
BooBoo1982 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Good for you, she doesn't sound like a very nice person, I wouldn't even refuse my worst enemy such help.
Author 69ways Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Good for you, she doesn't sound like a very nice person, I wouldn't even refuse my worst enemy such help. Good you see my point
AlexfromBoston Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 69, chances are she could not provide you with the epi-pen as most the medicine in the ER(or whatever office she works out of) is carefully logged and accounted for. I know from experience. I was a paramedic annd everytime we restocked our supplies in the ER, we would have to carefully log each item we took and have a nursing supervisor initial off on each line. Even when we restocked our intubation kit we would have a nurse sign off on stupid little pieces of plastic. Welcome to 2012, where everything and anything is all about accountibility. I wouldn't hold that against her.
Author 69ways Posted August 16, 2012 Author Posted August 16, 2012 (edited) 69, chances are she could not provide you with the epi-pen as most the medicine in the ER(or whatever office she works out of) is carefully logged and accounted for. I know from experience. I was a paramedic annd everytime we restocked our supplies in the ER, we would have to carefully log each item we took and have a nursing supervisor initial off on each line. Even when we restocked our intubation kit we would have a nurse sign off on stupid little pieces of plastic. Welcome to 2012, where everything and anything is all about accountibility. I wouldn't hold that against her. Strange that she could while we were together though...... Even if you are, which you are not because I got 3 from her in the last 5 years, I have many other things to hold against her. Like calling my mother and crying for 2 hrs begging her to talk to me to get back together after she had thrown me out while I had 29 flower in my hands for her bd and when I gave in and called her she replied: Hi, I got no time to talk today ,maybe in 3-4 day, bye.... Edited August 16, 2012 by 69ways
TaraMaiden Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Good for you, she doesn't sound like a very nice person, I wouldn't even refuse my worst enemy such help. Ditto that.... Strange that she could while we were together though.... charming. quite the lady. Yeah, ignore, you're right. Keep it up, buddy, you're doing great, and thanks for sharing how it's done!! 1
AlexfromBoston Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 Ouch, sorry my man. I was just commenting based on my own personal experience. In that case, she's a cold b--ch and needs to be dropped. 1
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