DojMaloj Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) So here's what's going on. Me and the ex have been BU since November (we had an argument, went NC for 2 weeks, and she took that as a BU and kept it that way). After months of on/off communication (sometimes physical) I finally put my foot down and went NC 2 1/2 months ago. She was already off my friends list on FB, but I put her on my block list. Last week I took her off my block list because she deactivated her account after our last and final conversation. She didn't just block me, as we work together and co-workers knew about the deactivation. Also, she's moving away next month and I might be getting a new phone number soon, so I figured once I'm healed maybe we can be friends again. The very next day she reactivates her account and add's a new profile pic. This means she reactivates and deactivates her account and looks for me. Then, she text me. Saying she hopes I'm doing good. I'm keeping NC. Now I'm thinking I should put her back on my block list since I'm not 100% over her. I know this sounds a little childish, but it's more of an out of sight out of mind feeling (even though I work with her!) What do you think? Edited August 15, 2012 by DojMaloj
not-a-drive-by Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Put her back on your block list and maintain NC. 2
winstonsdreams Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Dude block her, i blocked my ex and it made life so much easier! This is about how YOU feel not her, you do what is right for YOU! NC all the way friend
frogs24 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Hey man when it comes to ex's, facebook is the devil! I know how you feel man I have to work with my ex and prob one of the toughest things ever! Im still not over her but im sure as hell doing no contact to try and get over her!Easier said then done but hope goes well man. Luckly for you she is moving, but hope goes well and someday in the future be friends with her when you get over her! Luck
g450 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 You said: "Last week I took her off my block list because she deactivated her account after our last and final conversation." You are being dissengenuous. There was absolutely NO reason for you to unblock her and you know it. You used a lame excuse to take her off your block list. You actually went out of your way to unblock her even though there was no real purpose behind it. Question is why? You said: "Now I'm thinking I should put her back on my block list since I'm not 100% over her." Gee, ya think? What is there to think about? Again, you are being dissengenuous. Block her and keep her blocked forever. Did you get that? FOREVER! I dont want to see a posting here a month later saying "I unblocked her cuz I thought I was 100% over her". For real?? Man, If I had a dollor for every facbook game playing thread on this forum I would be rich. Some people just love drama I guess. 1
cheerylowe24 Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Lots of DRAMA on facebook.. its Devil... You are the one who can decide that... blocked her or not. What makes you feel better go for it..
Phanpooh Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 Hafl year ago, i deleted my fb. Then i just creat another, to connect to social network. And few month ago, i saw my ex comment on my friend picture, i didnt notice that was a picture of her and her parnert. But later, some ******* ask me about how i felt, i just chased all of her fb and her bf, then blocked all of them. That isnt making my life easier, but at least that dun bother me anymore. Result, yesterday, that one of her ******* met me in real life, i was suilting up and driving a brand "honda" car, she treated me with all of her respect and when i left that party, everyone who i called *******, tell me: well played, bro!
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