Al83 Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 I have going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I am getting scared of use breaking up. In the last couple weeks she told me that she has felt that this summer that I had been more a friend then a boyfriend. Mind you i have had a very stressful summer and I think she is right about me not being there as much. I love her so much and don't want to lose her. I don't know what to do. My situation is more difficult because i had some problems living at a friends house and had to leave that was what i was stressed out about this summer. Now i am about an hour away and she tells me last week about her feelings toward me. I feel helpless because I am an hour away from her and I only on back on the weekends and every Tuesday night. When I ask her if she feels that way still after last night she told me no, but the feeling is still there. This coming school year we both have roommates and it is going to be as difficult to have alone time. We have not physically fooled around in about 4 months since the end of last semester. I am running out of options what should i do to keep her. I have been depressed all week about this and i feel worse because i can't just appear everyday and help the situation by being there everyday. Can anyone guide me in a way to get my gf to change her feelings back to more then a friend then just a friend. I need help badly
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 We have not physically fooled around in about 4 months since the end of last semester. Uh..maybe you should give her some attention then. Try planning a romantic dinner. Share a bubble bath with her. Lie in bed rubbing your fingertips over her skin and ask her about her dreams. Try some intimacy...come on guys. We're really NOT that hard to figure out.
faux Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 It sounds as though she has made her mind up, and there is not much of a relationship left to save. Additionally, you seem to be going through a time period where you are encountering a lot of stress. I think it would be best for you to focus on yourself, rather than working yourself up even more over this girl. Deal with your own problems and bettering your situation. This girl comes second.
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