Brokendude Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 1 month of bu and 1 month of nc. I still miss her but its not as intense. Changes in my life since, doin well in school. Due to my diet, and laboring workouts, im ripped more than ever, my friends started to compliment me on it. Ive read 6 books all of which had contributed to me having a great understanding and acceptance of life. I slept with someone last week, with an attractive girl so i discovered my confidence and what im capable of again. I started volunteering on the weekends helping abused mothers and children so i really love that im able to make a difference. I also have only drank a total of one time! I used to drink everyday. Lots of great things have happened since the breakup and im proud that ive made it happen. Always remember guys the stronger the winds are, the stronger the tree. We will do this. Always remember that the key to happiness is PROGRESS. Love u all and stay strong and pm me if u need me, im ready to help or hear out anyone 2
Reegs Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Really Happy for you! I think you should change your name from "brokendude" to "fixeddude"
Author Brokendude Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Lol im not fixed by any means, im progressing. There r still very difficult days but i fight, and i fight hard, and i hope ill conquer this soon, and fully
Sameold Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 I'm in the same spot dude but now nearly 2 months NC. You are right, the key to happiness isn't trying to fix what broke. The key is building up other aspects of your life and progressing them. Once they are in shape you can again look to find happiness in a relationship. 1
Bigbopper Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Love u all and stay strong and pm me if u need me, im ready to help or hear out anyone How do I PM? Maybe you could look at my thread (about meltdown) and PM me? Im struggling big time, and I would like some tips on how to stay strong. Thanks
Author Brokendude Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Big bopper givr me ur email address
steveblack Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Breakup class of July 2012! Good for you my dude. I struggled today, but I am making slow progress as well. Its tough at times.. we got this 1
jmjacobs31 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 i am making progress too! I am 4 months in my BU and starting to feel better. I still have my horrible crap filled days but I am eating again, having fun with my friends, and each day gets better. What books did you read? 2
Author Brokendude Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 Hahahaha break up class of 2012 raise ur glasses, to us!!!!!! We will rise from this and never look back, the fact that ur here says u want to help urself so that in itself is a win for all of us. Were all here for each other and ur triumphs r as good as mine. One day well look back and laugh at this, but for now when things get tough we got EACH OTHER
Bigbopper Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Big bopper givr me ur email address [email protected]
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