MonsterMash Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 ya, her withholding behav just reeks of guilt, +2 Actually what did it for me is her throwing her "friend" in his face. Plus..she says "I'm pregnant"...goes on vacation, only to come home and give him the cold shoulder with the morning sickness BS? I don't know a woman alive who doesn't want to be pampered by her babydaddy while shes pregnant.....but she runs from him? Horse****. Something stinks. 1
Author Bigbopper Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 Actually what did it for me is her throwing her "friend" in his face. Plus..she says "I'm pregnant"...goes on vacation, only to come home and give him the cold shoulder with the morning sickness BS? I don't know a woman alive who doesn't want to be pampered by her babydaddy while shes pregnant.....but she runs from him? Horse****. Something stinks. Thanks guys, I keep thinking this too. To be honest, I am 100% sure the baby is mine, and I really have no genuine reason to doubt that. I do however have reason to doubt the reason for the break up. This makes me feel like a complete idiot, and ultimately a sperm donor. I now face the reality of either walking away and never looking back, or waiting patiently in the hope she will come round. All other options are exhausted. Ive tried NC/space, letters, emails, gifts, texts, friends, family etc etc. Yet she still (against all her families opinions) is willing to throw away a happy, loving relationship with a good (not perfect) man, who is a good dad. And all for no real reason. Life sucks right now.
Author Bigbopper Posted September 24, 2012 Author Posted September 24, 2012 I honestly don't understand why people ****, have babies, and dont work through their differences for the sake of the child. All these liberal ****s have all the goys head spinned with this happiness bull****, if you are not happy leave. Happiness is another illusion. Now you can raise a kid in a disfuctional setting with two single parents who will be at each other throats forever. Next time before you stick your dick in a woman, make sure your married first. If I was you I'd just grow some nuts and just leave her and the kid. I just did it. I wasn't going to watch my kid get drug through hell. Her mother can deal with that ****. Baby wasnt planned, obviously. There was so much love and happiness in the relationship we knew all would be ok. Or so I thought. Thanks for your comments though....
Sameold Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 One of my mates was tricked in to getting a girl pregnant. She was desperate for a baby and said she was on the pill..she wasn't. When he bought up the question as to whether they were keeping it the wedding was off and then they broke up... I really do feel for you, I can not imagine not being part of my baby's birth etc if I have kids. On a serious note please make sure that you 100% get a paternity test done as soon as possible. Don't beat yourself up as you havn't done anything wrong. All couples have difficult times, you are supposed to stick around and talk about problems and work through them not just run off etc....I should know as my girlfriend did the same. You might find that if you dig a little deeper you can find some more information out but I would advise caution until the kid is born. I am completely fed up with today's throwaway society.
MonsterMash Posted September 25, 2012 Posted September 25, 2012 Thanks guys, I keep thinking this too. To be honest, I am 100% sure the baby is mine, and I really have no genuine reason to doubt that. I do however have reason to doubt the reason for the break up. This makes me feel like a complete idiot, and ultimately a sperm donor. I now face the reality of either walking away and never looking back, or waiting patiently in the hope she will come round. All other options are exhausted. Ive tried NC/space, letters, emails, gifts, texts, friends, family etc etc. Yet she still (against all her families opinions) is willing to throw away a happy, loving relationship with a good (not perfect) man, who is a good dad. And all for no real reason. Life sucks right now. Dude! Listen to yourself. You're "100% sure the baby is yours." But you "doubt the reason for the break up?" I agree that you want the baby to be yours cause you like the girl. And you hope the baby will somehow make things better between you two. Stop that thinking right now. Get past what shes telling you and listen to what shes really saying. They're two totally different things. Go no contact. Get a paternity test. Then make your decisions on the results.
Author Bigbopper Posted September 25, 2012 Author Posted September 25, 2012 Thanks Sameold, its good to see someone who sees it from my point of view. Alot of people say arguments etc are a bad sign, but this was a one off and she ran away, despite carrying my child. I have no reason to doubt its mine as I was with her (and living with her) the whole time! And there are some things I just know she wouldnt do. I know for sure that I will never fall for it again. She pulled me in and seduced me with all the things I wanted to hear, fell pregnany then at the first hurdle ran away. I cant help but smell a rat too, but deep down I hope its all hormones screwing her head up. Sigh.....
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