Zezhit Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Me and my girlfriend are in a LDR and we have not seen each other in a long time.She's having her exams so we dont talk much now.I love her to death,and always will,but its really hard to stay interested in her when we are so far apart and i dont feel her prescence and love...its really hard..and im trying really hard to perservere and be patient cuz i know it will be worth it.What can i do in the mean time to make our relationship a success,since we dont talk much now?
LittleTiger Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Simple truth - if you don't communicate, you don't feel her presence and you don't feel her love (and vice versa) you will not make the relationship a success - at least not while you are apart. Without communication you will lose each other - sad but true. You have to find a way to communicate and keep the connection. You have to make time for one another. How long do you think your relationship would last if you lived in the same neighbourhood but never saw each other and never communicated? Relationships NEED communication. I'm really sorry but that is the reality. 2
Author Zezhit Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Simple truth - if you don't communicate, you don't feel her presence and you don't feel her love (and vice versa) you will not make the relationship a success - at least not while you are apart. Without communication you will lose each other - sad but true. You have to find a way to communicate and keep the connection. You have to make time for one another. How long do you think your relationship would last if you lived in the same neighbourhood but never saw each other and never communicated? Relationships NEED communication. I'm really sorry but that is the reality. Yeah i know sad truth...but she does try to find time to Facebook me though.I dont want to lose her ! i love her so so so much and we feel great when we are together.Shes the best...
LittleTiger Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Yeah i know sad truth...but she does try to find time to Facebook me though.I dont want to lose her ! i love her so so so much and we feel great when we are together.Shes the best... She 'tries' to find time? Does that mean that you have no problem fitting her in, but she struggles to find time for you? If she is very busy at school, perhaps she doesn't realise how disconnected you are feeling right now. If you can't get to actually talk to her, perhaps you could send her an email explaining how difficult this is for you. I understand your situation - in my LDR, we had a similar problem for an extended period and we very nearly broke up because of it. Now we are back to talking on skype every day we are both so much happier. If you want this relationship to work you will have to fight for it. Maybe, if you discuss this with her, you can find a compromise in terms of communication that works for both of you.
Author Zezhit Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 She 'tries' to find time? Does that mean that you have no problem fitting her in, but she struggles to find time for you? If she is very busy at school, perhaps she doesn't realise how disconnected you are feeling right now. If you can't get to actually talk to her, perhaps you could send her an email explaining how difficult this is for you. I understand your situation - in my LDR, we had a similar problem for an extended period and we very nearly broke up because of it. Now we are back to talking on skype every day we are both so much happier. If you want this relationship to work you will have to fight for it. Maybe, if you discuss this with her, you can find a compromise in terms of communication that works for both of you. I just talked to her about it.She said that she knows what I am going through and she hates it,and that she's doing her best to talk to me.Thats good enough for me man.I understand that she's really busy and I don't want to force her into anything cuz I love her and respect her.
LittleTiger Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 I just talked to her about it.She said that she knows what I am going through and she hates it,and that she's doing her best to talk to me.Thats good enough for me man.I understand that she's really busy and I don't want to force her into anything cuz I love her and respect her. With all respect, that clearly isn't good enough for you - if it was you wouldn't have posted this thread. You say you don't want to lose her and you are struggling to 'stay interested' - does she know that she is in danger of losing you? If she can't change anything then she can't - in which case, refer back to the first response I gave you.
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