rippedapart Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 My story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/334110-questions-no-answers I basically got an apology which went to great details, how she had realized weeks ago and made huge mistake and missed me but her ego in the way to say it sooner and essentially wanting to be back with me. Still no action however! Needless to say I am back to square one and I feel like I just been dumped again. What that all about?!
lil hoodlum Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Just my opinion and I don't know the two of you but I speak from my experience. Chances are that if I were to send an apology to someone, it would be to alleviate guilt/ open up a door for communication. It seems your ex has opened the door and apologized and told you the BU was a mistake. It would seem the ball is now in your court. Possibly your ex is waiting for you to take the next move. Should you feel it, you might accept the apology and thank them. It takes alot to admit your mistakes and apologize to someone. You might ask for more clarification or discuss in more detail about the apology and what it means (i.e. alleviate guilt or second chance.) Basically I view it as the ball is now in your court to take a step forward or not. Good luck!
Author rippedapart Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Thats the weird thing though, I took the step forward, accepted her apology etc she even made some crazy / draft plans. I do not get it, it seems now she went 180 again. I feel miserable now.
soccerrprp Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Thats the weird thing though, I took the step forward, accepted her apology etc she even made some crazy / draft plans. I do not get it, it seems now she went 180 again. I feel miserable now. i've been following your story some-what and your's sounds like a classic NC as much as possible situation w/o entertaining possibility of returning to her or her to you. It just sounds like she's being manipulative and emotionally unstable, at best. I know you have a child together, but please, please try to move on and find someone else. i'm sorry you're going through this. i'm a single father myself, but by different circumstances, so focus on your child (and you!).
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