to all my GUYS out there...please respond! :D

[the_opposite_sex]

OK, i've been w/ my guy for 3.5 years now, and I still have a hard time understanding him sometimes. I'm not gonna go into detail about every little thing that I have a hard time with, but my biggest challenge is the other beautiful women out there. I know he's gonna look, everyone does, but it's such a challenge for me. He looks at porn, and I dont mind that, especially since he doesn't do it on a regular basis.....but in real life, I feel that he could actually go out and get these other pretty girls he looks at in public. I even turn my head when I notice a pretty girl b/c i now he's lookin at her. *in public* We've talked about this over and over, but I just want to get other guys' opinions out there.

 

I'm not braggin, seriously lol, but his friends and everyone has told him how beautiful i am. But I guess you can be w/ a super model and still look and have your thoughts?

[DazednConfused]

My wife once noticed me checkin out another woman.... this is what she told me:

 

"The day you stop looking you may as well be dead."

"The day you actually touch one of them, you will be."

 

Seems fair.

[StartingAgain]

I'll get flammed again for this, but it is perfectly natural for a guy to look at beautiful women. You women do it to. Yes you do, be honest; I see it every day. aThere's nothing wrong with that either. It's all part of natural sexual curiosity. Ask yourself this question: what if your man had never checked *you* out? I think that as long as he's not out there hitting on women, he's not doing anything wrong. He should be a bit more discrete about it though. You can check someone out on the sly

[lydiamarie]

but it is perfectly natural for a guy to look at beautiful women. You women do it to.

 

i check out women all the time

 

it's funny cause it's true

[UCFKevin]

Doesn't matter how damn beautiful you might be, we're going to look at other women.

 

There's an old old saying, "Show me the most beautiful woman in the world and I'll show you a guy who's tired of her."

[StartingAgain]

LOL

 

i check out women all the time

 

I check out guys myself. And then think "Daaam he's gorgeous! On no, don't come over here by me! GO AWAY!"

[jw32802]

My ex was GORGEOUS but i honestly never felt insecure about our relationship because i knew that emotionally he was with me and that i was better than any other girl out there. i would even point girls out, if you play along you will feel better. but at times i would say "YOu could have any girl" and i know when i wasnt with him girls would flock to him but i never really got jealous. he could have cheated, i dont know if he did but he always swore he didnt and said that he was so in love w/ me and that i gave him everything he needed. if he cheated it would have been for ego boost and i just never thought he'd leave me for any of these girls, cuz most girls who are beautiful tend to be bitc*s, right? lol

[sinner]

All guys check out women. We're visual beasts. The trick, when you're in public with your partner, is not to be too obvious about scoping out other women. It is disrespectful. If a guy is too obvious or blatant , he's either an insensitive clod or, even worse, he's getting ready to leave.

[DerangedAngel]

It is disrespectful. If a guy is too obvious or blatant , he's either an insensitive clod or, even worse, he's getting ready to leave.

 

I agree.

 

-DA

[dudesomewhere]

I don't look at anyone else....whether I'm casual dating or with a girlfriend

 

all about respect and that I know I'm considered weird, but hey...I like having that integrity and TOTAL ABSOLUTE honesty

 

I guess it's half to do with going out with people who you're actually completely attracted to and not going out with someone cuz you're bored or horny.