would you judge a woman

[my body is a cage]

who had been in a relationship with a former adult star (after his career was over)? if you were certain he & she had no STDS

[rainfall]

I would...but since I'm female my answer probably doesn't mean much.

[my body is a cage]

I would...but since I'm female my answer probably doesn't mean much.

 

how would you judge her?

[mortensorchid]

I have no idea how I would react to finding out something like that. I assume she volunteered it to you, didn't she? Well, that's the past and we're in the now.

[Imported]

Yes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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[todreaminblue]

who had been in a relationship with a former adult star (after his career was over)? if you were certain he & she had no STDS

 

I think that other people would judge if they knew, Unfortunately society judges, people are nto very christian in attitude, jesus christ accepted a former prostitue or adult worker and cared about her.... I think that it depends on how much you care about someone honestly in in my opinion, how much it concerns you how others feel.I think the only one who should judge that guy isnt on earth to judge> i think full disclosure in necessary adn honesty and respect for both parties.In saying all this people are imperfect and tend to judge anyway.Seeing this is a hypothetical situation I would say it would be great if people didnt judge people on a a past but what they intend to do and live in the future....much more important i feel to look forward....or people should just die after committing sins no chance of ever gettimg out of their past......if they become that tainted by societies judgement.

 

That is my opinion and a bit dramatic....but honestly if everybody was judged on what they did in their past, who is pure? "Cast the first stone he who is without sin"" a very inspring man once said happens to be one who could judge and tell someone if they were bad or not.......that is of course Jesus.....So me being one of those sinners i dont throw stones to say yes or no or throw stones at all.....wouldn't liked rocks chucked at me...and I am a christian who has sinned...good luck..deb

[rainfall]

how would you judge her?

 

 

I would wonder why she would want to lower herself to date someone like that and what was wrong with her that she couldn't get a decent man.

[todreaminblue]

I would wonder why she would want to lower herself to date someone like that and what was wrong with her that she couldn't get a decent man.

 

"lower" is a matter of opinion arent we all created equally? I respect yoru opinion as it is probably held by half the planet..... it is part of modern day society to scorn others and gossip.......best wishes....deb

[my body is a cage]

I would wonder why she would want to lower herself to date someone like that and what was wrong with her that she couldn't get a decent man.

 

How would she be lowering herself? What if the former adult star was a really kind and good person in other ways? Not being snarky, genuinely trying to understand

[my body is a cage]

I think that other people would judge if they knew, Unfortunately society judges, people are nto very christian in attitude, jesus christ accepted a former prostitue or adult worker and cared about her.... I think that it depends on how much you care about someone honestly in in my opinion, how much it concerns you how others feel.I think the only one who should judge that guy isnt on earth to judge> i think full disclosure in necessary adn honesty and respect for both parties.In saying all this people are imperfect and tend to judge anyway.Seeing this is a hypothetical situation I would say it would be great if people didnt judge people on a a past but what they intend to do and live in the future....much more important i feel to look forward....or people should just die after committing sins no chance of ever gettimg out of their past......if they become that tainted by societies judgement.

 

That is my opinion and a bit dramatic....but honestly if everybody was judged on what they did in their past, who is pure? "Cast the first stone he who is without sin"" a very inspring man once said happens to be one who could judge and tell someone if they were bad or not.......that is of course Jesus.....So me being one of those sinners i dont throw stones to say yes or no or throw stones at all.....wouldn't liked rocks chucked at me...and I am a christian who has sinned...good luck..deb

 

thanks for your response. i am an athiest but firmly believe in morals, and condone all religions when used for good. i think jesus and mary magdolin (sp?) is a interesting and apt example, from both a secular and nonsecular angle. interestingly enough, the former adult star happens to be a christian (and a very good person)

[rainfall]

How would she be lowering herself? What if the former adult star was a really kind and good person in other ways? Not being snarky, genuinely trying to understand

 

 

They may be kind and gentle...but to me I don't have the highest opinon of anyone in the adult film industry and no amount of being a kind or gentle person could make up for the other stuff they did.

 

Really though, if someone wants to date someone who is a former adult film star, then they shouldn't care what other people think. I also doubt they would introduce them to people as, "Hi this is my boyfriend Dean, he used to sleep with 10 chicks a day for his job".

[proseandpassion]

No. I have dated a former adult film actor. We didn't connect for other reasons (one of which being: he had almost nothing else besides sex and sexuality to talk about!). But, in actuality, most porn stars are probably safer about sex than your average American (constant routine testing, etc).

[my body is a cage]

No. I have dated a former adult film actor. We didn't connect for other reasons (one of which being: he had almost nothing else besides sex and sexuality to talk about!). But, in actuality, most porn stars are probably safer about sex than your average American (constant routine testing, etc).

 

thanks for sharing. did you ever encounter any judgement because of your former partners career?

[proseandpassion]

thanks for sharing. did you ever encounter any judgement because of your former partners career?

 

All the time.

[AlexCross]

Yes I would judge her based on my own insecurities.

[gaius]

I would assume she had herpes, since herpes is rampant in the adult film business. Otherwise no, I wouldn't judge.

[Emilia]

No. I have dated a former adult film actor. We didn't connect for other reasons (one of which being: he had almost nothing else besides sex and sexuality to talk about!).

 

but that's the reason why you didn't connect, no? Being a porn star is a pretty extreme job, it takes a certain kind of person to do it and that person isn't likely to be emotionally healthy. It's only natural that he would obsessed with sex and sexuality. Not quite sure what you expected

[Emilia]

who had been in a relationship with a former adult star (after his career was over)? if you were certain he & she had no STDS

 

Yes because I don't see how a former porn star would be emotionally healthy enough for a relationship. I would think the woman was attracted to men who were quite likely not stable enough.

[my body is a cage]

All the time.

 

in what way? by future/ potential partners? or by others?

[my body is a cage]

Yes because I don't see how a former porn star would be emotionally healthy enough for a relationship. I would think the woman was attracted to men who were quite likely not stable enough.

 

ok, this is probably fair.