aFighter Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Yeah classic 'boy gets dumped by girl who finds another guy' It happened about three weeks ago. We were dating since august last year & she just dropped the bomb. I found out later she was seeing someone else anyway. To be honest I didn't shed a single tear. Yeah I felt like crap and asked myself the usual run of 'what the hell!?' questions. But I REFUSE to let ANYONE get to me like that. I cut off all communication with her right way. I blocked her from my Yahoo & Email also. I feel shutting her out 100% helped a lot in my fast recovery from this. I have not and I hope I never do hear from her again. Her & her new bit [who she will probably cheat on anyway] can rot in the pit of hell for all I care. I've got my own life to lead and if she chose not to be a part of it it's her loss.
faux Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 You have a very realistic, and very positive view on the situation. I wish that when I had gone through similar situations, I had the knack for realizing what was really going on as you do now It's definitely true that this new man is most likely her newest victim. If he is foolish enough to accept her into his life knowing that she left one guy for him, he deserves what is coming. Hopefully he'll learn when his time comes. I think you've done just about everything right here. If you still get angry from time to time, just remember that you're on the right track, and I hope you stick with it. This girl has proved herself to be trouble, and unworthy of any further attention from you... Just in case she tries to speak with you again, may those words stick in your head. I'll wish you bit of luck, but you seem to have things quite under control.
RoboHobo Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 As faux said, you seem to have a good control on the situation. The only thing I would advise on is to not let resentment breed. You are obviously going to feel angry and hurt, but resentment will effect your life negatively. Let her make her mistakes, it's her loss. You will find someone who deserves you and who will be devoted to you. Just don't let hate fill you. Good luck!
popvix Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 aFighter - yes, its almost good that this happened sooner rather than later. Nobody needs to be with someone who can act that way with another persons emotions .... There ARE other people in this world who have the same opinion. Dont let the resentment and anger go too far, but at least be happy in the fact that her way of life will trip her up sooner or later - and that YOU are the better person.
aFighter Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 Got an email from her last night [when you block someone on email it goes right into the deleted folder but you can still read it] Anyway she more or less gave the "I didn't mean to hurt you, I'm so sorry, boo hoo" BS BS etc etc. I did not reply, I shut off my email [i have it set to auto empty the deleted items folder on exit] shut down the comp got up out of my chair & went outside for a breather. I remember thinking to myself with a little grin "Who's sorry now?" I don't hate her, a little bit angry yeah. I'm not a robot & it does hurt but I refuse to let the hurt control me.
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