Fallenandbroken Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Well after 5 nearly 6 years of on and off and a lot of up and downs with a girl we seem to be done for good. No....we are done for good. She got with somoene new almost straight away which shows what others often find is that she was talking to him before the end anyway. They've been together 2-3 months and seen them together in my local pub recently. I hope she's actually happy with him and he treats her well even after everything she put me through over the years. I dont think it's a rebound or GIGS I think it's what she really wants. When I found out she was seeing this lad I did beg a few times and the last time we spoke she said some things that could of been in anger or could of been from the heart such as I'm happy now (with this lad a few weeks at this time) that she only tried to make things work because i was close to her 6 year old son etc. I said she wouldn't hear from me again and I've kept no contact since. Not been counting how long now but I think about 6 or so weeks. Been trying to keep busy, socialise and joined a gym that I go to 5 times a week. As I said been on and off with this girl and we've broken up before and gone at least 5 months NC until I'd hear from here again but this time feels different and I don't want to be her second choice again. I go from being ok without her to suddenly wack "she's gone" In the past at times I would rebound myself to get over her and I never did, she'd come back and We'd get back together. This time around I'm avoiding a rebound relationship so I can clear my system of her properly and anyway she said she wasn't worried if I found anyone else and if she lost me for good. She didn't care. I am feeling lonely and meeting a nice girl is so difficult these days. but would love to get into the dating scene soon. Sorry this was just to rant and try make sense of things And get them off my chest. Any input from anyone or advice about getting someone out of your system would be appreciated.
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