The truth about second chances

[andrew-bkk]

All you guys are hurting. And you're hurting real bad.

 

She left you, didn't she. And it hurts. And it hurts like hell.

 

You're confused and you're lost and you're directionless. And the pain is unbearable. And it hurts and it hurts and it hurts.

 

There is a possibility that she will come back.

 

If she does:

 

1. she'll tell you that she's sorry.

2. she'll say that she made a big mistake.

3 she'll say that she never really understood what she had until it was too late.

 

She may also say that she just wanted to hurt you. She may say that you neglected her.

 

So .... you get back together.

 

And that's great. It's wonderful.

 

At first, you'll be like a pair of teenagers. Or a pair of rabbits. And she'll say to you "why wasn't it like this before".

 

But then -- bit by bit -- you'll grow stronger.

 

And then you'll see her for what she really is. You'll see that she's weak and useless and devoid of character. You'll start to hate her.

 

So, you'll attempt to move on. And you'll attempt to move on without her.

 

And she'll get really nasty. And then you'll see her for what she really is.

 

Next, you'll try dating. You'll meet new girls.

 

But you will fail. You will make dreadful mistakes. You will make a fool of yourself.

 

And then you'll quit dating. You don't need any of this **** any more. You're okay now. You're stronger. You're wiser. You've learned a thing or two. You can live by yourself. You don't need a partner to support you.

 

And then -- when you're least expecting it -- you'll meet someone. She'll be the complete opposite of your ex. She'll be someone completely new.

 

And then ........ life goes on.

[Bobibble]

What a negative approach to second chances..

[steelgator]

quite the odd outlook I'd say

[Frank13]

Then the cycle will repeat itself.

[lemonlime]

You end up with someone thats the complete opposite of your ex it usually doesnt work out because you ended up going to an extreme and will realize you dont have much in common with the new one. Initially her being so different will be great, until you realize that was most of your attraction and you actually dont have that much in common.

 

If you picked features you really liked in the first gf you would want alot of those in anyone else you meet. You only go for the opposite your probably not ready to start dating.

[marilla]

i had a relationship with someone in my early 20's and the guy turned out to be someone really bad, i mean bad. We broke up and a year later i met a man who was the complete opposite. And i fell into a trap-i idolized that man-i thought he was perfect-since he was nothing like the previous one. I admired him like he was a superstar. Them we didn't work out and i was hurt even worse than before because i turned this one in my head to be the most amazing thing walking the planet. there is a danger there-so be careful not to fall into this trap.

[edwards99]

Im sorry but its not always like that..depends on who and character..I screwed up my first go around..and she left..but seen i still loved her..and she loved me so we tried again..my issues came back and i lost her again..things were great second time..but I slowly burnt away it the fibers that kept us close and regret it every minute..

now she is considering a third chance..or atleast i hope she is..

 

it all depends on so many aspects..

good luck all.. we need it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[GLDheart]

and then someday you'll talk in weird third person

[Tiera D]

i had a problem with getting into relationships that all started and ended similarly with one another,i seem always attracted to the same type girl horrible

 

TD