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Lonely Ronin Established Member

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Good, so "science" supports you, your personal experience supports you, 90% of men you talk to support you. Go be happy with your support and "knowledge". Why are you ruining this thread with it?

 

because he hates the fact that he can't get the women he wants to date, to date him.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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My theory is that some very insecure men need to think that its a "scientifically proven fact" that ALL women like jerks, and there are a sly group of charlatans at the ready to cash in on this any way that they can.

 

Meanwhile, how many of the women and girls on this forum right now are currently involved with a man who's a real jerk, and like it that way?

 

Anyone?

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The Way I Am Established Member

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So you have no interest in facts and reality?

 

If you ever say anything factual, I might be interested. I was interested in an original discussion, which the OP was prompting. You've not offered anything but the same tired drivel.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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So you have no interest in facts and reality? Instead you prefer to live in a dream world bubble? My mistake.

 

I didn't know.

 

You really should stop with your little "asides." They make you appear even more pathetic than you do without them.

 

Why do you think your bogus "facts" are of any interest to a woman? We are living our lives. We know who we like, and many of us are dating and married to them. They don't happen to be "jerks."

 

Do you actually believe that your fake "science" article written by "livescience.com staff" and which paraphrases the results of "studies" without actually citing a single one would trump the actual experiences of real live people?

ThaWholigan Established Member

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So you have no interest in facts and reality? Instead you prefer to live in a dream world bubble? My mistake.

 

I didn't know.

 

Any one of us could say it is you who lives in the dream bubble of jerks attracting all the women. Typical of the antagonists who frequent this forum merely to annoy with bogus scientific "facts" and assertions of jerks not getting laid, women being liars, and anyone who experiences anything else contrary to what is presented is a "loser" or "sucks".

 

Sorry.

 

:lmao:

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

Lonely Ronin

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They know enough to get laid often. Compared to the virgins who supposedly know "so much more".

 

sorry to burst your bubble buddy, but I'm about as far from a virgin as you can get. Once you make it out of the pubescent boy phase, maybe you will learn that there's more to life than trying to sleep with as many women as you can.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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Right, everything is a conspiracy. Any scientific evidence that doesn't support what you believe is automatically "false" and "lacks credibility"? Why? Because you simply choose not to believe it. Therefore, it must be false.

 

Choose not to believe it? Or live in an environment that disproves it being a reality for everyone?

 

Please, show us more scientific evidence.

 

I'll wait.........

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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So, Leisureguy2020 (is that the year you'll be graduating from high school?).

 

Where are the people who agree with you on THIS thread?

 

Every single person here, with their own life experience, is speaking lies?

 

And the only truth can be found on livescience.com, the words of Roosh V and romancecheaters.com?

 

I believe that even you will have to acknowledge the unlikeliness of this being the case.

 

Here is the truth and a fact for you: Love and attraction are very amorphous things and nobody can claim to understand them perfectly. If they do - they are the liars.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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If you could read you would see that the very first response I wrote to you in this thread stated that not "ALL" women want jerks.

 

Please try to be honest and consistent in your answers.

 

Please and thank you.

You also said in the same post that women "in general" are attracted to jerks, which implies "vast majority" - an obligatory, and convenient get-out in case you are called up on applying your theory to "all" women. Still, nice deflection, you get an 8/10.

 

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It is my theory that it's impossible to pinpoint exactly what women are attracted to as the many dynamics of attraction that apply to different women will produce so many variables that trying to come to a universal conclusion will always fail. That is why there are so many studies and scientific researches that contradict each other, and each side accuses the other of fabrication or accuses the guinea pigs of said research as liars.

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The Way I Am Established Member

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My theory is that some very insecure men need to think that its a "scientifically proven fact" that ALL women like jerks, and there are a sly group of charlatans at the ready to cash in on this any way that they can.

 

I agree. It's easier to believe that there's something wrong with everyone else than it is to accept it's something wrong with you.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

Mme. Chaucer

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I think the Leisureboy needs to check out some of those cowboy sites from the spammer above. Might be JUST the ticket!

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

Lonely Ronin

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Or should we be talking about dating?

 

Hmm.... I think you're in the wrong place if the topic of DATING is getting stale.

 

last time I checked, dating isn't about finding the next person to screw either.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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If you think more people agreeing with you makes you right then you are a blithering idiot.

 

Remember the earth being round and not flat? Yeah.. most people disagreed. What "most people agree with" and reality are not connected.

 

Sorry.

 

It's not a matter of people agreeing with me. It's a matter of people having relationships and marriages that don't support your very dubious and completely unscientific "facts."

 

The reality that nobody who is in relationships in real life can offer support for your fake "facts" is pertinent.

 

Do you truly not get this? I hope you are just being deliberately obtuse. Otherwise, I might have to feel guilty for engaging in an antagonistic manner with an intellectually challenged person. That would be wrong. And I would be sorry.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

Mme. Chaucer

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last time I checked, dating isn't about finding the next person to screw either.

 

Or even about finding the first person to screw!

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

Lonely Ronin

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Ummm.. no I asked for PROOF. Not opinions formed based on posts.

 

Try again.

 

blah blah, blah blah...

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

Lonely Ronin

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Says who? Last you checked? Who did you check with? Tell me.

 

People a lot smarter & well adjusted than you.

The Way I Am Established Member

The Way I Am

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Umm.. wrong. Most women date jerks at some point in their life. I never claimed that they marry jerks and stay married to them. I just said they are attracted to them and they date them.

 

I'm not even sure how to refute that, because I don't know what the "scientific" criteria is for being a jerk.

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

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Umm.. wrong. Most women date jerks at some point in their life. I never claimed that they marry jerks and stay married to them. I just said they are attracted to them and they date them.

 

Got anything else?

 

O I see...

 

So because some d-bag tricked a woman into dating him, that means she's attracted to him. Is your real name Sherlock Holmes? I mean my god your deductive reasoning skills are off the charts.

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Lonely Ronin Established Member

Lonely Ronin

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Like who? List 5 of them.

 

everyone who responded to this thread besides you!

ThaWholigan Established Member

ThaWholigan

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Umm.. wrong. Most women date jerks at some point in their life. I never claimed that they marry jerks and stay married to them. I just said they are attracted to them and they date them.

 

Got anything else?

OK, now this makes more sense. Around half the women I have known do run into the occasional jerk. I have 2 questions now.

 

1. What exactly constitutes a jerk? Lots of women will SAY a guy is a jerk if it goes sour, but she might be the jerk.......

 

2. What is the meat and potatoes of your point? Because a lot of jerks are pretty good at deception......

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

Mme. Chaucer

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Like who? List 5 of them.

 

How about … all the people on this fantastic thread? Except for you - the lone scientific voice among the ignorant! In your fantasy bubble, that is.

 

I'm bored of you now, and I've decided that even if you really have an intelligence deficit, you deserved all the heat you got here.

 

But it would be best for you to return to the PUA fora now, where your "truth" is spoken and where you'll be amongst your peeps. It's all for the best. Bye now.

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Garfish Established Member

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This post is funnier than a Jerry Springer episode! Mme. Chaucer and ThaWholigan, I like your intelligent posts.

 

One thing I do know for certain is that women do not like jerks... not if they are short, ugly, or broke ones!

 

I think there is a fundamental difference on this site between the people who believe in relationships and the ones who just want to score. There is so much jealousy from the guys who weren't born tall/good looking. It reminds me of folks who don't have money hating people who do, only because they don't. I sense that even if a good looking guy is actually a nice guy, certain people will label him a jerk because he's getting something that they are not getting.

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The Way I Am Established Member

The Way I Am

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The main problem I have with your argument is that you aren't defining a jerk.

 

The "scientific" article you linked to called George Clooney a jerk. Is he a "jerk" because he doesn't want to get married? What about his "nice guy" humanitarian work?

 

How can any researcher claim to know which characteristic of his women are attracted to?

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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This post is funnier than a Jerry Springer episode! Mme. Chaucer and ThaWholigan, I like your intelligent posts.

 

I thank you ;)

 

I sense that even if a good looking guy is actually a nice guy, certain people will label him a jerk

 

And THIS ^^^^^

 

Who exactly IS the "jerk" and is he really attracting all the women? Likely, it's just someone who is good with women getting labelled a jerk. What exactly is the "jerkish" behavior that is so alluring that women "in general" find it attractive?

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