digon1631 Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 I caught my ex girlfriend naked with another guy. This was when we were on a break(breakup in her definition) and she treated me the same way as she did when we were together. She kept giving me mixed signals and telling me she loved me and can't wait to marry me. When I found this out I went NC with her but then I went to get my stuff back from her. She tells me when she's lonely she misses me and she also says she wants to hang out with me. I could tell in her eyes that she still loved me, she looked extremely unhappy. However, she did start to talk a lot of **** to me. Telling me that this new guy is pleasing her (I won't go into detail) but she described it to me in detail. She then goes and says that she doesn't know if she wants to marry me anymore. She also puts me down and constantly says she is annoyed with me. I then realized she is trying to manipulate me into talking to her and being around at all times. I called her up later that week and I told her that I love you and will alwyas care about you. I forgive you for taht guy and I hope he makes you happy. she tells me she doesn't know if he makes her happy. I also told her i wish her well and that I can't continue to talk to her or hang out with her and that I am moving on with my life. She was really annoyed and told me that she wanted to get off the phone. Ever since then she has tried to contact me and I haven't replied. She tried to put me down again with a text she sent me and I still didn't reply. She says shes over me and all this stuff, but I can tell she still wants me around. She misses me a lot and I know deep down she still loves me. I think she is being stubborn and trying to say she doesn't love me anymore and act like she is happy. I honestly miss her still, but I really don't want to get back with her and I do not want to see her for a long time. The way she has been talking to me has been so disrespectful and I can't believe she would do that. I just keep wondering when will she realize that she made a mistake beacuse I never did anything wrong to her. She just said she got bored and had a crush on another guy. I just can't believe someone I trusted and loved so much would do this to me. we were together for 3.5 years and she told her whole family that she wanted to marry me. I am moving on, but I still wonder when she is going to say sorry and tell me what she did was wrong. She has been so mean about it, and I didn't react to her at all. I never got mad when she talked about the guy or anything else.
weallfalldown Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Walk away...get rid of her.....she's a pain in the ass. She's messing with your mind....... 2
CaliBabe Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 When they say they want to go on a break it usually means they want to test the waters elsewhere. This story is proof of that. I am so sorry you are being treated this way. She clearly doesn't know what she wants (you or the other guy) and if I were you, I wouldn't wait around for her to make her decision. You deserve to be first choice. Let her live with her mistake and you should find someone who will appreciate your love.
Chimu Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Damn sucks to hear, you went through that. I went through something similiar (minus the other guy), but the way she was to me was sending mixed signals. I would say just stay NC for abit.
Chimu Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 accidentally submitted, but yea forget about her, you deserve better then that.
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