bamaguy20 Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Whast the best way to get over an ex??? been apart from mine for 5 months, started the no contact thing 2 months ago..although we have talked a little and hung out when we were at the same parties a little bit..but nothing much......the feeling of hurt is starting to fade, but what more can i do to completly get her out of my mind????????????????????????
HokeyReligions Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Date others. Hang out with other friends. New hobbies or ressurect old hobbies. Be active and stay away from activities and places that you shared with her.
jonyx18 Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 its been 4 month since me and my ex split we kept seeing each other and sleeping together for 2 month after that but then we stopped 1 month ago i spoke to him but after finding out the reason we he left me another trick i decided to stop all kinds of communication its been a month since i spoke to him completely and i promise u NOW after all this time im starting to get over him NO CONTACT at all no text no all i wanna see how he is doing no oh i found something i thought u might want back NO CONTACT at all
Author bamaguy20 Posted July 15, 2004 Author Posted July 15, 2004 yeah i know no contact is best, but ive seen her a few times fairly recently and find myself wanting to see her again, EVEN though i know the no contact thing i did for almost 2 months made me feel worlds of difference.....see she just had surgery and i told her id come see her during the week to see how she was doing..what the hell should i do now???? plus..she sends me mixed messages, by teling me she still thinks about me everyday when she wears the ring i gave her, telling my best friend that her and i will eventually get back together.....makes me think if i just compeltly have no contact, then if anything possibly could have happend later on down the road between us, it wont because of no contact?? what do u think???
jw32802 Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 bamaguy what did you mean when you said 2 mths apart made you feel worlds of a difference? u felt different about HER/ in what way?
Author bamaguy20 Posted July 15, 2004 Author Posted July 15, 2004 well ill give you the very brief background.........got dumped on valentines day..been with her 2 years...blah blah blah, more behind that but whatever...so from feb to like april we tried gettin back together on and off, she acted like a complete bitch walked all over me...finally we both got home from school and i was sick of being walked all over so i let her know exactly what i thought, and i told her how bad she was ****ing herself up, which she is..but regardless..got in a huge fight thought wed never speak again........so anyways we stopped talking from the beginning of may to like late june...she started telling me she missed me and stuff in that time period...but really that no contact made me feel so much better..when i had to see her being a bitch and talkin with other guys and all that **** down at school i felt like dying..i felt awful..but the no contact started to make me feel better, i actually felt like i could live my life without her....thats basically what i meant..i actually just got back from her house right now to see her cuz of her surgery, and it went aright we talked, not about anything in particular for about an hour and a half, and then i left.....i know it wasnt the best idea, but deep down i really still want to be with her i think, even though im starting to see now that i can probably do better and meet someone else at the school i am at next year...
jonyx18 Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 of course u miss her it was two years hay you even miss a dog when it dissappear but you manage to get over it sweetie look been there she's treating you like **** if it's been 2 month since the no contact and she hasn't tried getting u back she is not about to start now dont be (plato de segunda mesa) which means if all fails then she has a second plate in case first one is not good enough whats ment to be is ment to be if u too are destined to be together god will reunite u and change her ways if you too were having problems than what makes u think its going to get better both of u need to change dont twist your arm trying to get her back b-cuz she will walk all over u let her make the first step
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