Coyoteloco Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 So, i wrote a couple of threads already, but this no contact thing its turning pretty hard to keep up with, its been 1 week since the last time we contacted each other (she contacted me with a text) and its been 2 weeks since i last talked to her in person. And its killing me inside to dont know what she is up to, and not to talk to her, because we were very close to each other, we texted everyday and she called me every night and we tryed to spend as much time together as we could. But now 1 week has gone by without her and i feel empty i feel i miss her. But im also pretty pissed and i try to think of all the bad things for me not to miss her and try to move on. But its hard, really hard because i still have feelings for her, i know maybe theres someone better for me out there, that would we me the love i deserve but she was really special to me. And to tell you the truth im a bit afraid she will find some1 else before me, that might be pretty childish thinking but i actually think that lol. And i dont know im pretty worried about her, i know our break up was because of the Greener Grass Syndrome, im pretty sure about that, we been together for 5 years and she couldnt give me any good reason for the break up rather than, im curious of what is out there, and from what i read this syndrome could mess her up in the head pretty bad. Should i be worried about her mental health and stuff? i was always her support and i always was there with her in the bad times. Now she is alone and all she got its her friends which arent so good persons and ever since she started to hang out with this new friends i suspected that they were trying to make us break up. And guess what they did. Im worried about her and that maybe she will get into a relationship with a douchebag and get hurt because she is pretty naive. So i dont want to contact her to give her the space she needs and thats why i write this any kind of reply will be welcomed. or advice. i still love her and i know she still loves me, but this gigs is in between us. Should i just forget her??
WeirdExs Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 You don't have to forgot about her but writing to her is not going to do anything. Trust me, she already knows how you feel and no matter how many times you tell her this is not going to change her mind. I guarantee it will ultimately make things worse. Re-connect with old friends, find a new hobby, or do anything to fill the void of that she left in your life. Also take this opportunity to show her that the "grass green is on the other side" syndrome might be a good thing for you. Enjoy yourself! Don't worry about the mental health stuff. Even though it was 5 years, there probably was a reason and you might just not be seeing it from her perspective. I know that might be tough to hear but you need to accept that it probably wasn't you rather it was her.
Author Coyoteloco Posted August 13, 2012 Author Posted August 13, 2012 thxs, yes i know, i already started with a new hobby, and im enjoying my life, reconecting with old friends and stuff, and making things for myself, and maybe the time i spent with her in the past no i use it for myself, which maybe made my life more fun, and more atractive to other women and people, but i still miss her likee crazy, and i dont know whats her perspective, but i think she got scared she was missing something from life, like being with other men and stuff, but maybe we just needed a break for some time, cause when we broke up i told her that i could stay some time without sex but not forever, and she told me that its ok but in the future she might be disgusted when we have sex again if another girl got down on me. I dont know whats its actually going on but for now, i live me life like if our relationship is over forever, and i try not to hope we get back together. I know she loves me, and i know she still wants to be with me, but maybe she just wanted some time out, the problem is that if i find somee1 knew that is better than her all her plan will get ****ed up! but well i just see this as a test to our love and if we get back together in the future or not, only time will tell! for now im single and hey if some of you want to come to my country and be my girl just pm me xD!! lollolololololol
dss Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Hello Everyone, I got with my girlfriend during high school 9th grade 5 days ago she told me she needed a break because she said I didnt show her that I loved her like being all on her and stuff kissing her and stuff, after 10 years she gave us a break she had addressed this problem with me before I would I was tell her I would change but I guess it didnt happen as fast or as she imagined it. She said she needs time that shes lost right now, she said guys are the last thing on her mind. she has been going out with her friends and she says she feels fine with out me. But then I tell her that I want to prove myself to her that I love her I want to be with her. After long hours of talking she said she does love me even though she does not want to admit it and she wants me to fight for her, I guess she says that I hurt her alot being this way and whats me show her im different she did tell me that she feels like she owes it to herself to try it with someone else if it comes along. I dont want to lose her I told her I would fight for her she said to give her space that she loves me but needs space. But what if she goes with someone else Im scared of losing her I am 23 years old shes 23 also. please advice..... :(
dss Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 you and I are going thru the samething its almost like u were telling my story
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