Felicity Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=green][/color] I am sooo sad.. I feel like something is missing.. My boyfriend and I broke up last friday and maybe you have read my past posts, we are kind of a immature relationship because we act like if we were in middle school! and we are now 24.. both of us agree to break up to see if we really loved each other or if it was just that we were used to each other and physical attraction.. 6 days have past and i've read and heard that it is better that i will find someone new but i realize that i don't want nobody else, i want him, i refuse to meet someone else he is really nice and i want to be with him but i'm not calling him.... We also agree that if he realize that he wants to be with me then he'll call me or viceversa yesterday.. my phone rang and when i picked it up the "other person on the line" hanged up... maybe it was him right? anyways.. when I think about his reaction when we hugged and said bye (when be broke up) he hugged me and kiss me (cheeks) and he cried I couldn't see his face but heard and felt that he was holding it (not to cry) Oh well maybe I just have to let it burn haha like the song and let him go... but i don't wanna! we had 2 years this is sooooooooooo sad.. what do i do?? Do I let time pass? Do I wait for him to call me. cause maybe he wont because we broke up other times and he called me almost everyday to ask how was i doing, and he told me that he doesn't wanna be like my ex ( That i couldnt let my ex go cause when we broke up he always called me and we always got back together") And my boyfriend said that he does not want to be like my ex and he also told me that I didn't need him........... oh god he said a lot of things... anyways do i let him go?? do i let time pass? i miss him! i mean i don't eat!!! (yeah right i wish i couldn't it) Help okey! thanks Felicity
HokeyReligions Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Get out and meet some new people. Go on dates with others. Learn about yourself. Get some new experiences. Then see if your feelings start to change. Refusing to do anything is not helping you grow and its not helping your relationship at all. The point of the break up was to see if you really loved each other. Well, sitting home and thinking about him is not going to work. You need to get out and be with others. You don't have to have sex, and I wouldn't recommend it for a while, but by all means--date others!
Author Felicity Posted July 14, 2004 Author Posted July 14, 2004 I live in a small town and where i go to party guys are like 20 years of age and younger.. I mean i have gone out a couple of times and I meet guys that are 19! they are too small and they just want to have fun! I want to have fun too but i'm looking for a serious realtionship (that ends in marriage) I have also met married guys! there are no guys is this town almost everybody (my age) is married or they are to young or the are to old... I could try and party like in another place but its like an hour from where i live.. and that makes me sleepy... anyways I am going out with a friend of mine.. that by the way I DON'T like he is just a friend trying to help another friend no to think about the ex.. so he's taking me to eat and to the movies.. I don't know if that helps but i'll try it, It's not a date so it really wont help me know if i want my ex back or no.. BUT I DO!!! anyways thanks! P.S I like that picture hehehe Felicity
Author Felicity Posted July 14, 2004 Author Posted July 14, 2004 I live in a small town... i have gone out several times and i only meet 18 or 19 year old guys.. i'm 24!! I want to be with the person i'm going to marry i' tired of going out i've been going out since i was 17 thrusday, friday and saturday! i don't like that anymore i think i'm too old because i don't enjoy going out as much as i did.. of course i enjoy it if its 1 time in 2 or 3 months but not every weekend.. anyways.. i'm just going to wait to see what happens.. oh and i met a guy the other day by the way he is CUTE but married and that's the kind of guys i always meet married or younger dudes.. what a luck uh! we don't have guys in this f$^%$ town!! If i want to see new faces i'll have to go to party to another town (the nearest one is like an hour away)... ........................................................................................... Felicity
Author Felicity Posted July 14, 2004 Author Posted July 14, 2004 OOPS I THOUGHT THAT MY FIRST REPLY DIDN'T POST AND I DID IT AGAIN HEHEHE SOWWY.......
RoboHobo Posted July 15, 2004 Posted July 15, 2004 Lol, don't worry about the double post, most people have done it at some point. I know what you mean about not being able to meet other people, the place I come is filled with "exclusive" groups of people and can be a very unfriendly place at times. I'm also very introverted and shy, so meeting people is hard for me too. I don't think you should be in a huge rush though, you will meet someone, and hopefully you'll meet him soon. I'm glad to hear that you are willing to get out and experience life, you both sound like great people, and you both will grow enormously from this. You might even want to use this forum to make some new friends. There will be people here who have similar interests to you and who you will be able talk to, talk advantage of it. It will broaden your mind and your perception of life. Don't be scared of the hour drive to the next town, it's inconvenient but taking the chance is definitely worth the effort.
Author Felicity Posted July 15, 2004 Author Posted July 15, 2004 [color=red][font=times new roman]Thanks RoboHObo... You seem a nice person!!! And you are so right! i will meet someone some day right? Hope you have a grrrrrrreeeeeeeat day!!![/font][/color] Felicity
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