SoulSearcher22 Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 So it's been almost one month since I've spoken to my ex of 4 months who left me for her ex of 3 years. I've come to the conclusion that I was just a rebound and that she was working on her relationship with her ex behind my back, even though it seemed we were really hitting it off and on the path of a great relationship. Since our relationship only lasted a little while, I don't think of her THAT much anymore after one month. Still, though, when I do. It's a pretty intense sad feeling that comes over me, which usually turns to resentment when I think about how she went about things. (She never actually broke up with me. I went to the beach for a weekend with some buds and came back to find that I was blocked on facebook and that she had gotten back with her ex. To this day, she still hasn't contacted me or told me. Completely out of the blue). Anyway, I was just wondering how much longer I was going to continue to feel that little pain? I'm thankful that it's nothing too serious anymore, but just annoying. I stopped feeling guilty talking to other girls after a couple of weeks but I still feel like if she contacted me and wanted to work things out, that I'd take her back. Which I don't want to feel that way. I don't want to want to take her back...
not-a-drive-by Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Rude. Cruel. Selfish. Coward. All that, or she was never yours to begin with. Would you really want to take her back? She left you without a word or explanation. It's been a month. If she had any decency, she should've at least broken things off with you. If she did care about you, she would've given some sort of explanation. I'm really sorry. It's a cruel, sad world. I'd never thought I would go through and experience it...
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted August 13, 2012 Author Posted August 13, 2012 Rude. Cruel. Selfish. Coward. All that, or she was never yours to begin with. Would you really want to take her back? She left you without a word or explanation. It's been a month. If she had any decency, she should've at least broken things off with you. If she did care about you, she would've given some sort of explanation. I'm really sorry. It's a cruel, sad world. I'd never thought I would go through and experience it... I don't know if I want to or not sometimes. I think if it did happen, (which, I know there is like a 2% chance. I mean she didn't even tell me anything..) it would be an extremely slow process with her no matter how she felt about that. But just talking about it is dumb. I know it's done. I was a crutch for her for a few months. I just still can't believe she went cold turkey. And we never fought and we were always great together...just so weird man.
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