Riss87 Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 My ex and I have been on/off for a while now. While we actually weren't together, we had been getting quite close again and sleeping together. I had sent him a txt Friday night and got no reply. An he later he called me to tell me he had been hooking up with a girl he just met. I know technically he hasn't done anything wrong, but it hurts so much to know he didn't think twice bout me when getting it on with this chick. Especially since I txted him during and it didn't put me off. I feel sick every time I think bout it. Why would he want to hookup when he had me to sleep with!? Worst part is he was bragging to all his friends about how good it was. I'm scared he is now going to keep doing hookups! We are now doing NC but I'm still all worked up and hurt about the hookup. How do I get past that!? I feel crappy
Balzac Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 You get past it by NC, moving forward in your own effort to rid your life of him.
Gulf-Delta Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Man, some of you people have really scummy exes. At least mine had the decency to not hurt me anymore once she left. Him being out of your life is a blessing, Riss87 1
Ukeallday Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Riss Im so so sorry. At least your ex told you. I am currently in a similar situation, except i had to find out myself the hard way earlier tonight by the way. When i confronted her in person, she promised me nothing was going on and to not worry. Drove by again only to find out he's sleeping there right now! Always someone out there going through worse. You dont need someone in your life thats going to do that to someone they "LOVE". Stay with the NC and live your life. Its going to be hard but Gulf and Balzac are right. It is a blessing hes out of your life and moving foward and getting him out of your life is the best thing you can do.
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