Car10e Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 I have had a friend that has helped me through a tough breakup with my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years. We have been broken up for a month now, and I'm still pretty sad. My friend has been there for me, even listening in on my ex bf's conversation, while they talked behind my back. I was grateful she was there, because it made me realize what kind of people they really are. She has gotten me out of the house and makes me feel better while talking to her about my issues. Over the past weekend, we took a trip to Vegas with 2 other friends. The first night we had a blast. The second day, myself and my other 2 friends decided to go to the pool because it was 110 degrees out. She already told us she was not going to the pool. She never has gone to the pool with us, because she said its not her thing, so we didn't think anything of it. We told her we would just be an hour, and she said she was just going to gamble. After the pool, my friends and I came back into the room where she was already gone. My friend mentioned that my one friend posted pictures on facebook of what she was doing. She had gone out to eat by herself and took a cab alone. She was walking the strip alone. We all tried to text her asking where she was so that we could meet up with her. By the time she texted back saying she was coming to the room, my other friends and I were already walking around. We waited 2 hours for her to come back. We continued to walk around for another hour before coming back to her in the room. On our way to the elevators we saw her leaving. We asked her where she was going and she just said '"I'm going out." She's a pretty independent person so we didn't really think of it to be strange. She came back eventually with food and just ate in the room. I told her we're going out again and she just said "cool, have fun." I asked her to come with us, and she didn't really say much. We came back around 10pm where she was sleeping. She then proceeded to tell us she has to leave by 7am in the morning, which caught us by surprise, because we were going to leave around 11am originally. The car ride home, she did not say a word. I knew something was wrong, but was afraid to ask. I thought she was just being moody. Later today, she deleted us all from Facebook. One of my friends who is still friends with her said she was posting stuff about the worst vacation she has ever been on. She told people she saw her friends' true colors, and that she is never talking to us again. I have been friends with her for 8 years, so its bothering me. I have tried to talk to her several times today but she just ignores me. The thing is, I'm not quite sure what she is mad at. My guess is she is upset we went to the pool without her. But we asked her to come, and she seemed okay when we left. I tried talking to her throughout the day yesterday, but she was either not there or sleeping. I tried to talk to her a little this morning, but she didn't seem to want to talk. Am I missing something here?
SpiralOut Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Something must have happened the first night there. Only way to find out what went wrong is to wait for her to cool down. Maybe later she'll tell you or somebody else what happened.
Author Car10e Posted August 13, 2012 Author Posted August 13, 2012 The only thing I can think of the first night is we couldn't get into a club because she was wearing flats. We waited in line for an hour, and when we got to the front they turned us around. My friends and I were not mad at all, but she got extremely quiet after that. It really wasn't that big of a deal. The next morning she also seemed fine. She's the kind of person to go MIA for awhile, so it kind of worries me. She has deleted all of the friends associated in my group of friends. I just feel like she's blowing it out of proportion.
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