Matt145 Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Well we split up 8 weeks ago and she dumped me and we are in NC, she has already broke it 4 times already. She begged me to be friends last sunday and i said no. Now shes just texted me that, i know she doesnt hate me really shes just saying it probably because she misses me and i wont speak to her and be friend. Should i text back or should i blank it? And yes i would take her back if it was possible.
CaliBabe Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Don't text back! You will gain more of an upper hand by not being so readily available to her and responding when she wants. Ignore!
BrokenAnna Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Leave it be and move on...no good will come of this if you reply
Author Matt145 Posted August 12, 2012 Author Posted August 12, 2012 I know its probably just breadcrumbs. So i will just blank it, its horrible not knowing what they wanted you for though. If she wanted me back she would just say right? And i can probably expect a call off her in the next hour or so
Author Matt145 Posted August 12, 2012 Author Posted August 12, 2012 (edited) Do not talk to her, it's very common for women to attempt to make themselves feel better about being the bad guy by trying to force a friendship, don't give her the pleasure. She doesnt want to be my friend because shes guilty. She wants to be my friend because she still loves me and wants me in her life, but she just doesnt want a relationship. So its a different scenario here. Before we went into NC i said dont contact me unless a relationship is involved and she said she wouldnt so its just ****ed my head up here. Edited August 12, 2012 by Matt145
libraamour Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 She doesnt want to be my friend because shes guilty. She wants to be my friend because she still loves me and wants me in her life, but she just doesnt want a relationship. So its a different scenario here. Before we went into NC i said dont contact me unless a relationship is involved and she said she wouldnt so its just ****ed my head up here. If that's the case, leave it alone. She just want some kind of attention from you. If you give her that attention then she will feel satisfied. Like you told her, don't contact you unless you're getting a relationship out of the conversation. Has she struck up the conversation yet? No. Then, leave her alone.
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