MourningLosses Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 I was involved with a married man for about a year and he told me he was going to separate from his wife all along. I believed him. But I did always say how could he go from spending SO much time with her to separation. It seemed to me there had to be a progression, something in between. I had separated from my husband once and we led very separate lives for a while before that. I had some idea what it would be like and I was emotionally detatched. He and his wife spent every night together at home, he was always home for dinner. And every weekend Rey spent both with the kids all weekend. I only had 4-5 nights he could get a night off from her! Did anyone here go from inseparable to separated or am I right that it's not possible? Thanks.
anne1707 Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Mourning He was never planning to leave his wife. Never planning to separate. As others have already told you, you need to let go. He used you, you let him. Now stop letting him control your life and move on from this. 1
tojaz Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Yes its possible, happened to me, but I would think very hard about Annes post, especially after looking at your other threads. He was playing a game and unfortunately he played it well. Let him go and move forward so you can find someone more worthy of your affections. TOJAZ
Recommended Posts