dealing with jealousy/other guys hitting on my GF

[TheRedeemer]

Hi everyone,

 

Basically I have an amazing girlfriend who I love very much, and she loves me, and all my life I've struggled with anxiety, so I already know I've got a problem there.

Anyway, she is a bit of a model, she does photo shoots and what not, and has all of her pictures up on facebook. Now I know lots of guys look at the photos and they comment telling her how beautiful she is hitting on her. Occasionally she'll "like" the comment, and that really hurts me because shes basically allowing them to hit on her and saying she likes it, or at least that's how I would see it if it were me. It's gotten to the point where just seeing her post something on FB gets me really anxious. I know she'd never cheat on my but I still worry that she'll find someone who is better then me and leave me. I've expressed my concerns to her and she tells me how much she loves me and that she'd never leave me, but there's always the chance that it might happen, and I'm so scared that it will happen, either that or my jealousy/anxiety will push her away.

 

Thanks for reading this!

TheRedeemer

[morichu]

Lighten up, she just likes the compliments. And DON'T tell her that it bothers you because it will just make you less attractive in her eyes.

 

This really isn't a big deal in my eyes. Just trust her

[gaius]

Stop looking at her facebook.

[MuscleCarFan]

I understand where you are coming from. My wife is very pretty and I am just an average looking guy and guys do tend to flirt with my wife every on e in awhile.