Fireo Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 I know, if you have to ask, it's usually a bad idea, but hear me out. The ex and I dated for about a year or so, had a mutual break up, and stayed in touch since and hung out a few times just as friends. Once or twice a month, mostly for coffee and catching up. We've both dated other people since, and both ended the new relationships on our own terms. So the other night, she stops by my house dressed up and looking great. We kept the mood light, flirted a little, but didn't take it any further than that. Then the next day she invited me out to lunch(usually she hints about getting together for coffee, but never comes out and asks). After lunch, we went to the park, walked around and had a lot of fun. At one point, she mentions briefly mentions she is taking applications for a new Boyfriend. I'm not sure how it came up, but somehow it flowed with the conversation. I suspect she wants to get back together, but isn't sure that I'm interested, and doesn't want to put herself out there out of fear of rejection. I'm thinking about sending her an email along the lines of: "You mentioned you were taking applications for a new Boyfriend, I would like to reapply for the job. And create a "boyfriend resume". Something cute and cleaver. So, good idea, or bad idea? And why?
soccerrprp Posted August 12, 2012 Posted August 12, 2012 Sounds like she's interested. As to why, you know that answer. I would have a heart-to-heart to sift some things out that lead to your first break up and lay down a new foundation to work on. Just my opinion. I would talk about it first before committing.
Author Fireo Posted August 12, 2012 Author Posted August 12, 2012 (edited) Sounds like she's interested. As to why, you know that answer. I would have a heart-to-heart to sift some things out that lead to your first break up and lay down a new foundation to work on. Just my opinion. I would talk about it first before committing. Thanks for the quick reply. We actually already had that talk way back in the spring (april) when she was with the other dude. It was uncomfortable, but the hatchet was buried. It was the first time we met up since the break up, since then I've been working on the problems she had with me, and I've noticed a change in her as well. Edit:And it wasn't anything major, but a lot of minor things that added up. Edited August 12, 2012 by Fireo
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