Brokendude Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Guys after i slept w this girl this morning, not my ex, my emotions have spiralled out of control, i miss her so much when the whole week ive accepted it. This is such an empty feeling i feel my stomach and chest r gonna burst, and have no more tears to cry, i have no one to talk to rt now and im dyin inside, its been 4 weeks of nc and all i can think about is how much fun shes having out there, and i kno i shouldnt be worried about that, but im only human, i cant block thoughts 24 hours a day. Im so vulnerable rt now and coming down from the high of this week, a strong week emotionally for me. I just want to hear her voice, and her laughter, ughhh this is so difficult and worst when im in public u cant even tell im hurting, i am extremely low rt now, any words of motivation will be appreciated, im proud of my 4 wks of nc tho
weallfalldown Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Mate you did what you had to do........ No matter what it won't take the pain away. Either leave other women alone until you feel better within yourself or keep doing it until you don't care... But i know how you feel......
2muchlove Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Man. I think we've all been there. I woke up after a night of drinking with a couple old mutual co workers. One of which I slept with on the couch. Almost wept out of that place on my way to the train.
Dblock10 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 why you guys crying about this! you slept with a new piece of meat! be happy! or try to be anyway. i guess you guys really loved your ex's on a very deep level. i know how that feels
2muchlove Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 why you guys crying about this! you slept with a new piece of meat! be happy! or try to be anyway. i guess you guys really loved your ex's on a very deep level. i know how that feels I don't love someone unless my entire heart is in it. Makes it a lot harder to get back after it's ripped to shreds.
2muchlove Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 so what are you saying? you put up a guard Nope, the opposite. I put all of my heart and emotion into my relationships with none to spare. And I'm sure a lot of people on here do the same. Which is why were all here.
Dblock10 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 yeah this is what i want to work on, but then for me id feel like its not a real relationship unless i do. maybe i should be honest with the next girl i meet tell her i don't do serious relationships
Xestenz Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 The key is to be completely honest with yourself about the person you are with. They are who they are, but so often we are willing to overlook warning signs or accept the unacceptable. It's okay to lead with your heart, but only with those that YOU actively determine are worthy of it (I know, it is a bit of a paradox and not at all easy to implement).
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