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Anyone dated or is seeing the same sign?....

 

I was wandering, in particular scorpio, as i know a few and we do seem to share the same very strong traits.....

 

title meant to be men and women.

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My GF is a scorpio, I am a pisces :p she has jealousy issues that goes beyond intense and that leads to irrational thoughts The memory of an elephant, so I can't waver in my morals, or it'll come back to sting me in the ass later. Other than that, she is the woman that restores my faith in genuine females.

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yea...i'm quite jealous at times......scorpio's are very loyal too my friend ;)

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Scorpios are loyal - until they perceive they have been betrayed - then they have a snappy temper, and a vindictive toxic streak, which prevents then from forgiving.

 

Both an ex of mine, and my ex- MIL (not that ex's mother) were Scorpios - both left me emotionally smarting at their inherent attitudes....

 

I have a couple of really good Scorpio buddies, and I know what they're like, so I know what to expect (true to form!) but I'd rather not date a Scorpio - if I were dating.

 

sorry.

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I'm not big on the astrology thing but I am a Gemini and went with my polar opposite, a Sagitarious, for 16 years. Much roller coaster, drama, and grief. But like I said, I blame it more on his issues than the stars involved. :) Who knows though!

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Scorpios are loyal - until they perceive they have been betrayed - then they have a snappy temper, and a vindictive toxic streak, which prevents then from forgiving.

 

Both an ex of mine, and my ex- MIL (not that ex's mother) were Scorpios - both left me emotionally smarting at their inherent attitudes....

 

I have a couple of really good Scorpio buddies, and I know what they're like, so I know what to expect (true to form!) but I'd rather not date a Scorpio - if I were dating.

 

sorry.

 

your right we find it hard to forgive.......my perfect match= cancer both water signs.....i haven't met a cancer yet....

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As a Virgo, I have a special admiration (and sexual attraction) towards Scorpio women. They have an air of mystique and wisdom that I don't find in a lot of others (depending on other areas of their chart of course). They are also bloody sexy :love:

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only a scorpio woman can handle them. epic.

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I'm a Scorpio, and I know a few women have a hard time dealing with my personality traits. If you looked up Scorpio man in dictionary, you'd probably see my face. :laugh:

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Virgo dating a Virgo. very powerful. my last GF of 2 years was also a Virgo.

 

when I did OLD their sign was something I considered heavily. I will not under any circumstances date the 3 fire signs or 3 air signs. they are too extreme for me. I need stability. but there were exceptions. I do make sure to read the profile to see iof there is some kind of compatibility.

 

I prefer Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo, Libra, Cancer, & Pisces and in that order.

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Right, that's the last time I offer YOU my last Oreo..... :p

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all i know is, i'm sceptical of aquarian's now......:D

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I touched on this in the astrology thread in the water cooler section. I'm a scorpio, but even I don't think I can date one. The best bets for me seem to be Sags and Cancers. All I know is I have no luck with Leos. Physical attraction, sure, but I have not meshed with a single leo I've ever met.

 

I am a textbook scorpio. Intense, passionate, mysterious, bold, creative...loyal if you prove to me you deserve it. At the same time I can be vindictive. I've never reconciled with anyone who ever wronged me. If you made me drop my ice cream cone at 4 years old, I remember you. I don't forget, I don't forgive, I don't let bygones be bygones, you wrong me, and I'm done with you.

 

It's not even something I feel I can control. I do wish sometimes I could forgive others and move on, but my memory won't allow me. You'll always have that marking on you, and it's hard for me to look past it.

 

I do think though, my positives outweigh the negatives. If you prove to me you're worthy of my love, I will make you feel things you've never felt before. I'll make your fantasies reality.

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People actually believe this stuff? I had no idea this was even an issue with dating...I never looked at people's signs, even in OLD. lol

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People actually believe this stuff? I had no idea this was even an issue with dating...I never looked at people's signs, even in OLD. lol

I don't take it too seriously, I study it but mostly for fun. Free will obviously trumps all, and nobody is completely compatible with another going by astrology.

 

There is something to it though.

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People actually believe this stuff? I had no idea this was even an issue with dating...I never looked at people's signs, even in OLD. lol

 

There is something to it, at least for me. I won't rule someone out because of their sign, but when I connect with someone really well, I ask what their sign is, and then I come to find they're a sign I'm compatible with.

 

Also, everything they say about my sign is true for me. So there is something to it I think.

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I don't take it too seriously, I study it but mostly for fun. Free will obviously trumps all, and nobody is completely compatible with another going by astrology.

 

There is something to it though.

What is there to it? I mean I'm genuinely curious...what possible basis in fact could it have?

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There is something to it, at least for me. I won't rule someone out because of their sign, but when I connect with someone really well, I ask what their sign is, and then I come to find they're a sign I'm compatible with.

 

Also, everything they say about my sign is true for me. So there is something to it I think.

Yeah but for every example you have of someone matching their sign, I'm sure there are examples of people who are the opposite of what their sign says they should be. I don't think there's any real correlation. I think you're looking for a correlation, so you find one.

 

EDIT - Not trying to derail the thread, sorry!

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Yeah but for every example you have of someone matching their sign, I'm sure there are examples of people who are the opposite of what their sign says they should be. I don't think there's any real correlation. I think you're looking for a correlation, so you find one.

 

EDIT - Not trying to derail the thread, sorry!

 

I guess that would make more sense if I ask right off the bat what sign they were, and then tried to group them into their sign. But I connect with them first, then ask. I'm not projecting. I hit it off with a girl and say hey, just curious, what's your sign? Every single woman I've asked, has been a sign that my astrology tells me I should be a good match for. Coversely, many of the women I've had failures with have been signs I'm told to stay away from. Again, I wait until our chemistry is a hit or miss before I ask the sign.

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What is there to it? I mean I'm genuinely curious...what possible basis in fact could it have?

It's not really fact, much less theory akin to numerology and tarot. But it's more complicated than just the 12 signs. Everyone has a unique personality set that can be traced by the position of the planets on a circular chart that has 12 houses, each house representing a facet of ones whole being. Each house is governed by a sign. The signs you know of are the Sun signs, but there are also Moon signs, Rising signs, Mars signs etc.....

 

There's more but it's a lot to type in one post :lmao:.

 

I find that it is quite accurate when using charts to identify parts of someone's personality and using it for compatibility as well (synastry charts). But, as always, free will is still the precursor to it all. The astrological stuff is merely an indicator of what is likely, rather than what is.

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I guess that would make more sense if I ask right off the bat what sign they were, and then tried to group them into their sign. But I connect with them first, then ask. I'm not projecting. I hit it off with a girl and say hey, just curious, what's your sign? Every single woman I've asked, has been a sign that my astrology tells me I should be a good match for. Coversely, many of the women I've had failures with have been signs I'm told to stay away from. Again, I wait until our chemistry is a hit or miss before I ask the sign.

Then I can see why you would believe it. My experience has been different. I'm nothing like my sign, and when it comes to other people I would say it seems like a 50/50 shot whether their sign describes them accurately. This makes its predictive power exactly zero, so pretty worthless in my book. But that's based on my experience, I'm not saying it's true or false.

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When i met the ex, i studied her sign against mine, low and behold my worst match (scorpio and aquarius), we were so uncompatible in so many ways, and believe it or not it was so true.........

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Then I can see why you would believe it. My experience has been different. I'm nothing like my sign, and when it comes to other people I would say it seems like a 50/50 shot whether their sign describes them accurately. This makes its predictive power exactly zero, so pretty worthless in my book. But that's based on my experience, I'm not saying it's true or false.

 

 

I had a 2 year relationship with a 52YO professional astrologist/numerologist/tarot reader. I was very skeptical of the mystical world. Im very skeptical by nature and a bit of pessimist. I dont believe it till I see it. but she was so accurate in things she said time over time, I could not believe it. she's not a future teller, thats different and includes alot of grey smoke..

 

as far as zodiac traits are concerned, those I dated all had multiple traits of their zodiac sign. some less, some more. thats why I dont date the air/fire signs. they all have that something of that sign that deters me. but mostly its they are not stable. their space cadets or they need change and space all the time. not for me.

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I am a textbook Pisces, and I am drawn to the same signs, even before I know their signs....Scorpio, Sagittarius, Leo and Taurus are great for me. Gemini men and women make me want to jab my eye out with a spoon.

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I am a textbook Pisces, and I am drawn to the same signs, even before I know their signs....Scorpio, Sagittarius, Leo and Taurus are great for me. Gemini men and women make me want to jab my eye out with a spoon.

 

Lol my mother is a gemini. Oh the torment :laugh:

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