SerCay Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 (edited) Hi guys.. After being away for a while due to reconciliation with the ex, yup..I'm back here again. Everything was going so well until we had a little quarrel about the fact that he was typin in my ear every time we were on the phone, so I told him it was disrespectful. Then he wants to hang up to continue his IM conversation so he doesn't have to type on his cellular whilst on the phone with me..and I ask, wow whats so important then (so impotant that he has to hang up on a not even 5 minute conversation), what's this about? Andd he doesn't answer tells me I'm too curious and hangs up. After this we had a quarrel later on about the fact I think it's disrespectful to type in someone's ear while you're on the phone.(Btw, this typing in my ear had happened like 10 times before and every time I told him, please don't do that, he never listened, so this was kind of the last drop) Then couple days later he asks me to dinner, he says let's go at 9, I said can we go at 8? I get so hungry until 9 and he's all like, never mind, I'm not going to dinner with you, you always have to battle me, you can never agree at once. Sigh. In my country we would say these are things that don't even fill a nutshell..Yet his behaviour changed onceee again and once again I got pissed off for his provoking annoying behaviour aaaand we're back at NC, aka square 1! Yayyy... Have I been a total nag or is nothing really going on and he's just tripping? Be brutally honest with me plz Edited August 11, 2012 by SerCay
LoveHurts88 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Hi guys.. After being away for a while due to reconciliation with the ex, yup..I'm back here again. Everything was going so well until we had a little quarrel about the fact that he was typin in my ear every time we were on the phone, so I told him it was disrespectful. Then he wants to hang up to continue his IM conversation so he doesn't have to type on his cellular whilst on the phone with me..and I ask, wow whats so important then (so impotant that he has to hang up on a not even 5 minute conversation), what's this about? Andd he doesn't answer tells me I'm too curious and hangs up. After this we had a quarrel later on about the fact I think it's disrespectful to type in someone's ear while you're on the phone.(Btw, this typing in my ear had happened like 10 times before and every time I told him, please don't do that, he never listened, so this was kind of the last drop) Then couple days later he asks me to dinner, he says let's go at 9, I said can we go at 8? I get so hungry until 9 and he's all like, never mind, I'm not going to dinner with you, you always have to battle me, you can never agree at once. Sigh. In my country we would say these are things that don't even fill a nutshell..Yet his behaviour changed onceee again and once again I got pissed off for his provoking annoying behaviour aaaand we're back at NC, aka square Yayyy... Have I been a total nag or is nothing really going on and he's just tripping? Be brutally honest with me plz My ex would prolly return someone's else's text before mine.. I asked her she said she doesn't get notifications on her new phone I got her... Overtime I think couples get too used to each other and take each other for granted... U really don't know what u have until its gone or when it's too late.. How long have u been dating?
Author SerCay Posted August 11, 2012 Author Posted August 11, 2012 My ex would prolly return someone's else's text before mine.. I asked her she said she doesn't get notifications on her new phone I got her... Overtime I think couples get too used to each other and take each other for granted... U really don't know what u have until its gone or when it's too late.. How long have u been dating? Hi LoveHurts, I know exactly what you mean. My ex used to IM with everyone else but me..and then on top of it, this typing in my ear thing. I guess you're right it all has to do with taking for granted. We were dating for 2 years, we split for like 2 months, then got back together for 3 weeks, until now. And you? I hear you experiences similar things? The worst is, after this quarrel, after telling him what bothered me, I let it go totally so all was fine. He's the one that started acting distant again after something small like this and the dinner thing! It's like he has 0 tolerance for me left, know what I mean?
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