Beatrixx Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago and I want him back. I've realized that I'm miserable without him. However, I am scared that when I call him, he won't want me back. Does anyone have any experiences/stories of being a dumpee and the person who dumped you wanting you back? What happened? Did you get back together or not?
Mike_d Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 do you have your act together? have you addressed your part that caused you to dump him? why if you dumped him is he now ok? are you just wanting something that will not make you feel like you currently do, or do you really want him back because the relationship is something that will work? what is your real motivation?
Tree_Salmon Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago and I want him back. I've realized that I'm miserable without him. However, I am scared that when I call him, he won't want me back. Does anyone have any experiences/stories of being a dumpee and the person who dumped you wanting you back? What happened? Did you get back together or not? I've done that before. Broke up with my ex because I wasn't getting any maturity or what i wanted out of the relationship. I took her back a few times, I initiated the reconciliation. But nothing ever really changes unless the other person is willing to change. Don't expect it to magically be great now. Address all the issues that caused you to leave first.
Jono85 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago and I want him back. I've realized that I'm miserable without him. However, I am scared that when I call him, he won't want me back. Does anyone have any experiences/stories of being a dumpee and the person who dumped you wanting you back? What happened? Did you get back together or not? let me guess, the new crush(s) that u broke up with him to pursue, haven't really panned out? honestly, if my ex wants me back, after about 3 weeks of NC, and me knowing she was crushing on 2 other guys immediately after she broke up with me, i don't think i could take her back. the pain i've gone through knowing she left everything we've built b/c we had a rough couple of weeks and would rather pursue fresh new guys that are undoubtedly smooth-talking her, giving her good vibes etc etc...i just wouldn't be able to get over it. ..sorry just venting.. 1
Author Beatrixx Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Update: I just called him.. He sounded genuinely happy to hear from me. I explained that I feel I had made a mistake and said if you don't want to be with me anymore, I'll understand. But if you do want to try and make things work, can we meet and talk? He asked if he could think about it and I said sure. Then he said he'll ring me tomorrow. Eek. What do you think the chances are of him wanting to get back together judging from this?
Canadian731 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 If there hasn't been serious work on both parts to screws why you two broke up, then it will be EXACTLY the same result. After a break up the dumper usually does realize that the grass in fact isn't greener, then try to scramble back and hopefully by that time the dumpee has moved on so the cycle won't start again.
Buttercup84 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 There was a reason you broke up , remember that . You both have to be willing to work on this together , it isn't just a matter of weeks or months . Do not do this just because you're lonely . When you're not with him it is hard not to see the bad sides . Think of him too , do not get his hopes up and then realize you do not want it after all .
dannykeyz831 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I've been dumped 3 times and all with the same girl. We do our nc thing for like two months tops and either i call her back or she call me and we get back together. It become an endless cycle..just something that is not worth dealing with. I love my ex gf but after a while you just get fed up with all the bs that not matter how much you care about them, you just want to move on for good.
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