rach24680 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Brief overview. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I'm 23 and he's 26. I've posted previous about our relationship but recently, due to no particular circumstances, I've become really detached from him. I'm usually always the one to initiate sex and I'm always up for it, but now even the thought of kissing him turns me off. When we're together I feel awful because I know I should be wanting to cuddle and kiss him but I can't bring myself to do it. I know he's suspicious that something's wrong as it's really not like me not to be affectionate, this has been going on for about 2 months and when we last had sex I really felt like I didn't want it to be happening at all, so I keep making excuses not to stay at his house or if we go out I'll invite friends with us too. Like I said, there's nothing that's happened for me to be so distant from wanting to be close with him. I don't know whether to break it off or stay and see if my feelings change? Ha anyone else ever felt like this? I don't know what's happened!! Any advice appreciated thanks.
LoveHurts88 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Brief overview. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I'm 23 and he's 26. I've posted previous about our relationship but recently, due to no particular circumstances, I've become really detached from him. I'm usually always the one to initiate sex and I'm always up for it, but now even the thought of kissing him turns me off. When we're together I feel awful because I know I should be wanting to cuddle and kiss him but I can't bring myself to do it. I know he's suspicious that something's wrong as it's really not like me not to be affectionate, this has been going on for about 2 months and when we last had sex I really felt like I didn't want it to be happening at all, so I keep making excuses not to stay at his house or if we go out I'll invite friends with us too. Like I said, there's nothing that's happened for me to be so distant from wanting to be close with him. I don't know whether to break it off or stay and see if my feelings change? Ha anyone else ever felt like this? I don't know what's happened!! Any advice appreciated thanks. My ex broke up with me yesterday she said she lost feelings and its not enough for us to continue... I agreed i wouldnt want to b with someone who no longer has interest in me.. Just set me free..
Author rach24680 Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 I have interest in him, and I love him. It's just he physical side of the relationship. I don't know if I should just talk to him about it, or wait and see how my feelings turn out and see if I feel different after a bit?
jackiki Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 are you feeling sexually attracted to other guys?
Dblock10 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 tell him what your feeling. if you cant work it out then break up. simple as that!
Author rach24680 Posted August 12, 2012 Author Posted August 12, 2012 are you feeling sexually attracted to other guys? i find guys attractive yea, i can't think of anyone in a sexual way though,
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