mimirock Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 For time purposes I'll just cut right to it. So a few months ago I was dating this guy. He's cute and awkward - I'm cute and awkward and we click. then we hook up, which is what people in a relationship do. And much like a scene out of the worse teen drama sitcom he dumps me - and via text no doubt!! Anyway skip to the week after Valentine's Day. HE sends me a text(a series of texts) apologizing for his d-bag behavior. Talking about he was disuaded to be with me. First I'm like WTF you're an ******* - then I'm like why does he still have my number. I deleted his minutes after. I was stand offish at first, then eventually he didn't give up on texting so I just texted him back. I wasn't as pissed anymore and figured we be friends. WRONG! we hooked up, naturally. Then he pulled the same **** - a month later he sends another tired text about being a dick and apologizing. Spewing all that jazz about being awesome and whatever - so what I want to know is why does he still have my number? is what he saying legit? what should I say to him?
TaraMaiden Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 .... - so what I want to know is why does he still have my number? is what he saying legit? what should I say to him? What I want to know is - why do you even care? Why give him head room? Why not just completely block him off, ignore him, and just totally drop off his radar? Why play into his stupidity? Why lower yourself? Just forget him, and drop it....! Let the scumball find another prissy willing victim - go your own way and don't even bother....! 1
Author mimirock Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 you're totally right. I think I give him these bs second chances because well he was my first (technically) something about a connection or whatever. I don't even see him the same way anymore. I haven't texted him or called him and when he contacts me I don't reply. I was just wanting to know why he still texts me. I figured out some time ago that I most likely am just that random after thought girl in his phone he can call when horny.
TaraMaiden Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 he's fishing and throwing out breadcrumbs for bait. If you reply, iot simply validates his opinion that he can still make you jump.... Block him at every turn, delete, deny, do not respond.
leoc1973 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 You only dated him for a short time right? you are a booty call! Stop replying to him. Unless thats all you are looking for is sex too. He probably went right down the list on his phone looking to get laid.
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