Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Just when I thought I was doing fine and all, memories just keep flooding my mind. I'm still in NC and am planning to stick to it no matter how strong the urge to text her a "I miss you". Just seems so unreal how someone who was part of my life can just cut off completely so easily
weallfalldown Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Sorry dude...don't text, call or anything.......you'll feel like **** if you do....
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Sorry dude...don't text, call or anything.......you'll feel like **** if you do.... Yea, I'm not planning to. I blocked her off facebook, deleted her number (but I still remember it tho). Dont plan on breaking NC. Just feels crap now
Appleness Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Stay strong Sav! I'm telling you there is nothing good that can come out of that "I miss you". I've been there. When I had to see my ex 2 months ago to bury our dog together, I told him I missed him when he hugged me. He said it back. I went back to NC cold (was doing LC before due to sick dog) and he has just done his quiet stalker thing without any real contact. Moral of the story: missing someone doesn't mean you want them back.
TaraMaiden Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 ... Moral of the story: missing someone doesn't mean you want them back. ....And neither does them missing you.....
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Stay strong Sav! I'm telling you there is nothing good that can come out of that "I miss you". I've been there. When I had to see my ex 2 months ago to bury our dog together, I told him I missed him when he hugged me. He said it back. I went back to NC cold (was doing LC before due to sick dog) and he has just done his quiet stalker thing without any real contact. Moral of the story: missing someone doesn't mean you want them back. Thanks . I will definitely stick to NC. Don't want to be trodden all over again. Sorry to hear about your dog :\
SoulSearcher22 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Just when I thought I was doing fine and all, memories just keep flooding my mind. I'm still in NC and am planning to stick to it no matter how strong the urge to text her a "I miss you". Just seems so unreal how someone who was part of my life can just cut off completely so easily Sounds like exactly like my situation. She just cut me off literally completely. Blows my mind.
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Sounds like exactly like my situation. She just cut me off literally completely. Blows my mind. mmhmm..one second she's all sweet and the other she's as cold as ice. GAH. But for ourselves, we gotta pull through
SoulSearcher22 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 mmhmm..one second she's all sweet and the other she's as cold as ice. GAH. But for ourselves, we gotta pull through Do you still talk to her?
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Do you still talk to her? Nope. This is a strict rule that I adhere to. You should implement NC if you want to get over this girl and move on with your life . I've gone through a 4 year relationship and wasn't able to get over her due to me keeping in contact with her. After I went NC for a period of time, I finally got over her and now we're friends. So for my most recent ex, I will not talk or contact her in whatever way
SoulSearcher22 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Nope. This is a strict rule that I adhere to. You should implement NC if you want to get over this girl and move on with your life . I've gone through a 4 year relationship and wasn't able to get over her due to me keeping in contact with her. After I went NC for a period of time, I finally got over her and now we're friends. So for my most recent ex, I will not talk or contact her in whatever way Yeah, i tried calling and texting and facebook messaging within the week after she suddenly left. Hardest week ever, hearing her voice in her voicemail. Soon after my friends convinced me to stop, it got easier. Of course, there is a little part of me that wishes she would call me up one day soon and apologize and convince me to take her back
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Yeah, i tried calling and texting and facebook messaging within the week after she suddenly left. Hardest week ever, hearing her voice in her voicemail. Soon after my friends convinced me to stop, it got easier. Of course, there is a little part of me that wishes she would call me up one day soon and apologize and convince me to take her back Don't bank on it bro, don't bank on it. Your friends are right, you got to stop. And don't cave in to temptations because there are bound to be days where you feel so alone and weak and you would just want to call her up. DONT. Stay strong and you will emerge a better person
SoulSearcher22 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I should be good now. But i am worried ill have a few days within the next couple weeks where i get weak. We're goin to the same community college alstarting at the end of the month. Gonna be weird if i see her. What usually triggers u missing her?
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 I should be good now. But i am worried ill have a few days within the next couple weeks where i get weak. We're goin to the same community college alstarting at the end of the month. Gonna be weird if i see her. What usually triggers u missing her? What triggers? Anything and everything man. The first few days I can't even sleep in my own bed. Trust me, I have my weak moments and I do cry. But after awhile, I feel all better again and knowing I did not cave in to my temptations make me feel EVEN better. Yea, I know what you mean, I go to the same school with her. Ah well, gotta suck it up
LoveHurts88 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Just when I thought I was doing fine and all, memories just keep flooding my mind. I'm still in NC and am planning to stick to it no matter how strong the urge to text her a "I miss you". Just seems so unreal how someone who was part of my life can just cut off completely so easily Sav liked u said stick to NC... Its not our loss its theirs.. Maye theyll realize this but by then itll b too late and theyll b on this forum haha 1
Author Sav Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 Sav liked u said stick to NC... Its not our loss its theirs.. Maye theyll realize this but by then itll b too late and theyll b on this forum haha Ah damn..if she's on the forum she can def see it's me. Sav is my real name haha
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