phil00 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Hello all. It's been 2 years since my break up. Messy break up. I've posted about it on here as well as my last corespondence with the ex. All very negative. She's not a good person, isn't very honest, and definitely not for me. So, what's the problem you ask? She is so damn pretty. I mean, pretty. But even that I can get over. What I'm having a hard time with is that here I am, having the hardest time even getting a date, and when i do, there's no spark whatsoever, and I know that my ex is out, having fun, playing with boys. Dating, dumping, dating, etc etc. It's like, she doesn't even get sad because she can get a guy whenever she wants. She pursues. I mean, she pursued me. And no guy would say no to her. She's out having the time of her life, and here I am left wondering, trying to convince myself that I'm better off. I dunno guys. What should I do? Is there another spin on this that I can take to make it ok?
Dorian85 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 it sounds like you are assuming a lot? I mean, do you know FOR SURE 100% that she is out living it up? Picking up guys left, right and centre? Even if she is..... WHO CARES! Sorry if that's blunt lol...and yeah, it is easy to say "who cares" to someone else's problems. In all honesty, she pursued you right? So what does that mean? Your probably a good looking dude, with a great personality and confidence. ALL girls love those characteristics (not just the pretty ones either!), or else why would she waste her time on you? She obviously saw something in you worth pursuing? No>? Stop worrying about what she is doing, and start appreciating what you are doing. She is one pretty girl on this earth that is FULLLLLLL of pretty girls. The more you go out and date, party and socialize, the less you will actually be thinking of her doing the same.
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